Shagzmondo chiks make better wives

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by mrembo mzuri

i cant stand stupid women for 5 mins, let alone a life time. Smart men will always get the smart women!....but thea are guyz who purposely go for the dumb women coz they think a stupid woman is easier to deal with...

LOL Its true there is some one for every one.

[Ghetto Love]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

Ofcourse we are still friends…this is just a discussion and its okay to have different opinions.

Well, since you wunt answer my questions….you call them baggage of questions, I guess we shall never understand each other. This is one of those topics we can agree to disagree.

However, JD does have a valid point. If a man cannot cope with a certain kind of lady, no big deal. He should just let her be and go look for a shagzmondo to marry. As long as all 3 parties are happy, good for them!

Frag I didnt say a "baggage" of questions, read carefully in a relaxed atmosphere(kwani your bieue is there,mwambie aende Sittingroom unakam)..I said a "Barrage of questions"
Any my dear i did answer them in my post,but not in point form,just fish for the answers, it could be you dont agree with them thats why you dont see them as answers,but again if i answer you the way you want to hear,it wont be genuine side of me.

[Ghetto Love]

Originally Posted by mrembo mzuri

i cant stand stupid women for 5 mins, let alone a life time. Smart men will always get the smart women!....but thea are guyz who purposely go for the dumb women coz they think a stupid woman is easier to deal with...

You getting it all wrong,kwani whats your leverage for "Shagsmondo woman"?, Who said coming from Shagz means you are stupid?
Smart Women know what it takes to get and keep a good husband.
Smart men know which women make a good wife and Family too

[Ghetto Love]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

LOL Its true there is some one for every one.

Thats not true, many are still single.

[tinda]

lemme tel u broda dat diz chic wil actually leave u 4 another man once she chanukas here in town. she'll want 2 do ol she hasn't done in shagz. better us who r used 2 being miss independent (experience )

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by Ghetto Love

Frag I didnt say a "baggage" of questions, read carefully in a relaxed atmosphere(kwani your bieue is there,mwambie aende Sittingroom unakam)..I said a "Barrage of questions"
Any my dear i did answer them in my post,but not in point form,just fish for the answers, it could be you dont agree with them thats why you dont see them as answers,but again if i answer you the way you want to hear,it wont be genuine side of me.

*Sigh* ok you said barrage....nimechoka. Hata sijui what that means. Who ever said mashada is a place to relax when one is tired was so wrong.Naendelea kuchanganyikiwa zaidi.

Ok sawa........wacha tuwachie hapo.

Originally Posted by Ghetto Love

Thats not true, many are still single.

I meant that when you guys dont want an independent woman, there is some one else who wants her bad enough to even compose lyrics for her. You have never heard that song sijui its by who but it goes something like 'She's got her own.....when she says she's got it she's got it....thats why I like her...she's independent etc etc' Hujaskia?

Plus my circle of friends are independent and they are all either in serious relationships, engaged or married.So when you people complain that no one wants independent women or that they are not smart because they are independent, am finding it pretty hard to understand.

I tried to understand but you wouldnt answer my barrage of questions (man I dont even have the energy to check it up....*sigh*)

And in any case, its not like marriage is the alpha and omega of life. There are people (both men and women) who are happy with their single status) So being single shouldnt be considered a bad thing.

Lets just agree to disagree.Am pretty fine with that.Am sure if you tried hard enough, you would be fine with it too. Kila mtu akae kwa class yake.That way there will be no conflict.

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by tinda

lemme tel u broda dat diz chic wil actually leave u 4 another man once she chanukas here in town. she'll want 2 do ol she hasn't done in shagz. better us who r used 2 being miss independent (experience )

Reminds me of maids my mother has had in the past. For some reason, it was believed that the best maids where to be gotten from shags coz hawana mambo mob ie hawajachanuka.

Sure enough the maid would come. As innocent as they can be.Afew weeks down the line she has learnt afew things here and there.

Shortly she wants leave to go and blow dry her hair. Then she wants lotion kama ya mama. Then she wunt make chapos coz amejipaka cutex. Give her afew more weeks and she becomes unbearable. The excitement of being in the city is too much for her. Plus amechanuka tu sana.LOL

[okiedokes]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

*Sigh* ok you said barrage....nimechoka. Hata sijui what that means. Who ever said mashada is a place to relax when one is tired was so wrong.Naendelea kuchanganyikiwa zaidi.

Ok sawa........wacha tuwachie hapo.


I meant that when you guys dont want an independent woman, there is some one else who wants her bad enough to even compose lyrics for her. You have never heard that song sijui its by who but it goes something like 'She's got her own.....when she says she's got it she's got it....thats why I like her...she's independent etc etc' Hujaskia?

I was just thinking about that song as I read your posts only to find you referenced it. The song is by Ne-yo.

Plus my circle of friends are independent and they are all either in serious relationships, engaged or married.So when you people complain that no one wants independent women or that they are not smart because they are independent, am finding it pretty hard to understand.

I tried to understand but you wouldnt answer my barrage of questions (man I dont even have the energy to check it up....*sigh*)

And in any case, its not like marriage is the alpha and omega of life. There are people (both men and women) who are happy with their single status) So being single shouldnt be considered a bad thing.

Preach sista! Some men have taken it upon themselves to "save" women from singlehood.lol How about instead of asking independent women to lower their standards, such men improve theirs?

Lets just agree to disagree.Am pretty fine with that.Am sure if you tried hard enough, you would be fine with it too. Kila mtu akae kwa class yake.That way there will be no conflict.

Frag, I must say with female lawyers such as yourself, women in kenya should feel very proud. Change is coming!

[okiedokes]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

Reminds me of maids my mother has had in the past. For some reason, it was believed that the best maids where to be gotten from shags coz hawana mambo mob ie hawajachanuka.

Sure enough the maid would come. As innocent as they can be.Afew weeks down the line she has learnt afew things here and there.

Shortly she wants leave to go and blow dry her hair. Then she wants lotion kama ya mama. Then she wunt make chapos coz amejipaka cutex. Give her afew more weeks and she becomes unbearable. The excitement of being in the city is too much for her. Plus amechanuka tu sana.LOL

ha ha I know right? You forgot to add that they start competing with the Madam of the house. They make it so hard to be helpful to them b/c as soon as you start giving them your clothes, they start to think you are equals.

[kikolyo]

Originally Posted by Jerry D

I don't think there is any problem if the controlling independent women stay single. That way, they won't ruin anyone's marital life.

It's actually best if they stay single. For men who want to get married, don't complain that you can't get married to the wrong women. How dare you complain yet the right women are in abundance?

Now folks, just help me understand this independence thing. Who is an independent woman? Independent from WHAT or WHO? Does the independent woman stay in town only? Can a shagz woman get independent? Do we also have independent men? If all independent women went to live with all independent men in their own world, would they still remain independent of each other or interdependent? If independence in this context is a desirable way of living, what would happen if we all became independent? Independent from WHAT??? Confused!