To cook or not to cook for him. Ladies n guys "some" please.

[TRaceME]

I have big issues when it comes to cooking for him, Do i love him yes. but ofcourse that has nothing to do with it. Cooking aalll the tyme now that i have an issue.

How often r u supposed to cook for someone ur dating? ati food ikiisha kwa fridge ni "baby c u come over we cook" "we" and wen u fika there u cooking. lol then at the tyme he'z sippin on hiz corona.

Guys, hata kaa ur lukin for that "homemaker" surely all the tyme kupika? n ladies wats ur take on this.

[fuxs]

Originally Posted by TRaceME

I have big issues when it comes to cooking for him, Do i love him yes. but ofcourse that has nothing to do with it. Cooking aalll the tyme now that i have an issue.

How often r u supposed to cook for someone ur dating? ati food ikiisha kwa fridge ni "baby c u come over we cook" "we" and wen u fika there u cooking. lol then at the tyme he'z sippin on hiz corona.

Guys, hata kaa ur lukin for that "homemaker" surely all the tyme kupika? n ladies wats ur take on this.

Do you have a problem spending his money?

[TRaceME]

that does not help n hiz money has nothing to do with it.

I need ladies opinions mostly

[okiedokes]

First, I must admit I enjoy cooking but mostly for the excitement factor in trying new recipes. There are days when I don't feel like cooking or I'm just lazy. On such days, I would expect the guy to understand and enjoy the take out meal. lol He is also more than welcome to cook. I don't make a habit of offering full benefits without full time job performance. lol.(I don't mean sex)) So I may cook for a boyfriend once in a while or twice a week, but won't go out of my way for it. I will also ask for his help. On the other hand if I am married, I will make more of an effort to have meals ready more often but I will still need some help from him.

[Fraglante]

I have no qualms about cooking for the man I love. After all the way to his heart…there is some truth to that.

First off we don’t live together so there is no way I expect him to find his way around my kitchen. I will do the cooking, no questions asked. He can help with the cleaning though I will still have to go and re-do it when he isn’t looking LOL

At his house, he insists on cooking for me but truth be told his culinary skills are nothing to write home about. So if I know what’s best for me/us, I will be there to assist.

This has never been an issue for me.

[Devine]

These are his expectations for you, now and forever... You will cook at all times. The smart thing to do is let him know your expectations too.

[Kanjahi]

Originally Posted by TRaceME

I have big issues when it comes to cooking for him, Do i love him yes. but ofcourse that has nothing to do with it. Cooking aalll the tyme now that i have an issue.

How often r u supposed to cook for someone ur dating? ati food ikiisha kwa fridge ni "baby c u come over we cook" "we" and wen u fika there u cooking. lol then at the tyme he'z sippin on hiz corona.

Guys, hata kaa ur lukin for that "homemaker" surely all the tyme kupika? n ladies wats ur take on this.

Very simple.
If u don't feel like cooking tell him so and order out .

Why do women complicate simple issues.

[TRaceME]

Thanks guys... but hey ati u say i just tell him i dont want to? that is never taken well btw. its like i always have to.

Oh well, i feel so much better seeing that there are gals who dont mind doing it. Btw i hate it when he tries to trade my cooking with something else, ati he'll do ABCD for me when i cook. ????? this things shouldnt they come naturally?

[coolpapi]

Originally Posted by TRaceME

I have big issues when it comes to cooking for him, Do i love him yes. but ofcourse that has nothing to do with it. Cooking aalll the tyme now that i have an issue.

How often r u supposed to cook for someone ur dating? ati food ikiisha kwa fridge ni "baby c u come over we cook" "we" and wen u fika there u cooking. lol then at the tyme he'z sippin on hiz corona.

Guys, hata kaa ur lukin for that "homemaker" surely all the tyme kupika? n ladies wats ur take on this.

Just cook when you feel like cooking or take turns. If he wants meals on demand let him get a maid.

[BULLSEYE]

Originally Posted by TRaceME

Thanks guys... but hey ati u say i just tell him i dont want to? that is never taken well btw. its like i always have to.
Oh well, i feel so much better seeing that there are gals who dont mind doing it. Btw i hate it when he tries to trade my cooking with something else, ati he'll do ABCD for me when i cook. ????? this things shouldnt they come naturally?

If u r an african,then u know damn well that the kitchen has always been reserved for women,call it 'old' fashioned,but thats a fact,and i can tell ur man is a polite/good (african) guy cause he always offers to reward you as an appreciation,make no mistake of the gesture,but u take it for granted ,as u well put it:'they should come naturally' word of advice,if u r planning on keeping your man,that is one quality in a woman that has NO EXCEPTION whatsoever......or unless ofcourse u wanna join the G20's...fida?ur guess is as good as mine!ooops,i can smell the food burning,shut the comp.and run to the kitchen b4 hell breaks loose.gd woman.