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Default If your ex intends to storm your wedding - 08-24-2008, 03:21 AM

If you have a difficult ex whom you suspect could storm your wedding and cause you immense embarrassment,you ned to take a series of steps to prevent that from happening.

Weddings have become very expensive and you cannot afford to suffer that much emotional and financial loss after all the preparations.

I think its best to hire security guards and man the gate with the photo of the suspected gate crasher.

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If you have a difficult ex whom you suspect could storm your wedding and cause you immense embarrassment,you ned to take a series of steps to prevent that from happening.

Weddings have become very expensive and you cannot afford to suffer that much emotional and financial loss after all the preparations.

I think its best to hire security guards and man the gate with the photo of the suspected gate crasher.

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woiyee, I feel for the other woman although I don't see why she decided to embarass herself like that. Storming into an ex's wedding hardly solves the problem b/c in most cases the marrying couple are aware of the possibility. It's rarely a random event, otherwise why would they beef up security and harakisha the wedding if they didn't know? I think pastors are to blame; if the other woman has a legit case, like the groom abdicating the responsibility of raising his child, pastors/priests should refuse to marry the couple.
 
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I think pastors are to blame; if the other woman has a legit case, like the groom abdicating the responsibility of raising his child, pastors/priests should refuse to marry the couple.
Marrying and child support are mutually exclusive - No?? If you divorce and miss a payment, that would not be grounds for stopping your other wedding or cohabitation.

The only legal issue is if the man is still married to the ex, and has evidence proving it, but if they are separated, child support cannot impact on their now separate lives, maybe am wrong.
 


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Default 08-24-2008, 07:57 AM

i don't understand why storm a wedding ati coz 'he's yours?' kama amekuacha,amekuacha.i don't see men doing this.......imagine YB* on the news.....
 


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Default 08-24-2008, 09:34 AM

the stormer is more beautiful than the bride.poor her.
 
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i don't understand why storm a wedding ati coz 'he's yours?' kama amekuacha,amekuacha.i don't see men doing this.......imagine YB* on the news.....
men do not storm weddings because they are spoiled for choice.
but us,sadly.we are soo many n always in a competition on who lands on the heaviest wallet.hahahahahaaaaaaaaa
 
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Default 08-24-2008, 01:54 PM

In this day and age of DNA, I don't get why some men don't save themselves the trouble. If he can't afford the DNA test, may be figuring out the 'timing' of the baby would help greatly.
I feel for the new bride, b/c this was supposed to be a memorable day for her, full of joy and not commotion.
 
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men do not storm weddings because they are spoiled for choice.
but us,sadly.we are soo many n always in a competition on who lands on the heaviest wallet.hahahahahaaaaaaaaa
a good honest answer........its the wallet getting married not the man.
 


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Default yes - 08-24-2008, 04:20 PM

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the stormer is more beautiful than the bride.poor her.
i agree carole and she has hot lips just to add.
 


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Default 08-24-2008, 05:49 PM

it serves the man rite.....,
u don jus go spiling ur seeds all ova the place and expect
everything to go smooth sailing....,..,
good for him!!!!
God is punishing him for his intentional mistakes!!!
 


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