[Wampum]

A friend of mine is in this situation, please advice coz shes going nuts!

She received a call last weekend from an old male acquaintance late in the night and the husband gave her the phone to receive the call. The call was a “hi how are you doing’ call the only problem was it came in at midnite. She explained to the husband that it was just a phone call and they used to work with this guy in previous job. The following day first thing the hubby does is to tell her to sms the guy a rather offensive sms from his phone to put the guy off, my friend refused and says she will deal with it her own way, if it was about receiving a call, she would tell off the guy herself. Now the husband has fumed and moved away from the bedroom saying my friend is protecting this guy. How should she handle the situation? The husband acknowledges that he trusts her explicitly and does not suspect anything which is the true case-she just received a phone call!!

[crystal meth]

the only thing your friend can do is wait for her husband to get some sense, he is being very immature. Insulting the man is not going to help in any way, I think your friend handled the situation well by refusing to give in to her husbands demand. She should tell her guy friend in a polite way not to call her, as for her husband.. she should let him cool off, he will realize he is just being a big baby and move back into their marital bed soon enough.

[Fraglante]

Tell that friend of yours that she has a very immature man for a husband and she needs to treat him as such by switching off her phone when they go to bed or putting it on vibrate and carrying it with her everywhere she goes.That way she will never give him a reason to throw his childish tantrums.

[chemical]

I'm sorry but all three are idiots....

the jamaa for calling after midnite to say "watchudoing?"(personally I call no one after 9pm unless its urgent)...
your pal for not checking him right then and there(which is probably what the huzzy was waiting to hear)
...and the huzzy for nuna-ing when he should have asked the dude whats up when he answered the phone...

[Wababa]

Unless it is you we are talking about, maybe the woman and the man have something. How do you know?
Men should be protective of their wives but should not expect their wives to protect them.
Nani hajui mwanamume ni jogoo?

[Wampum]

@Wababa the huzzy did not receive the phone, he gave it to the wifey to answer....

Wifey knows hubby is waiting for her to plead, talk about egos

[Wampum]

@Wababa the huzzy did not receive the phone, he gave it to the wifey to answer the call.

Wifey knows hubby is waiting for her to plead, talk about men's egos!

[sensualicious]

that man sounds like he is so insecure, he is trying to mark his territory by sending offensive sms´s . He should grow up and stop acting like a silly 16 year old boy who has never had a girl before