[barb]

Am sick and tired of most mashada men bashing women, women should do this, should wear this, should marry at this age, yada, yada, yada.....i have some dirt on you men, ladies do you know that only 30% of men are able to satisfy a woman, let me make this more interesting, am gonna do a survey with some of the most popular males in mashada;
-muk
-east coast
-kkkk
-buster
-didier
-dotnet
-jasakwa
-sinbad
-tactician
-alja

let's do some elementary algebra here, out of these 10 men only 3 of them are able to satisfy a woman.
So this means that we ladies have a real problem coz men think that they are doing a bang up job in the bedroom but in reality they are not.
So what is the problem?? if you asked one of the guys where they learned about sex the obvious answers would be, from the hood, friends and the media, and this, i believe is the root of this predicament. Initial sex ed should be a father's responsibility to a son not from the hood.
I have also been doing research and i found out that older guys say in the ages of 40 and above are the best lovers, why?? because to them sex is about compatibility, keenness, humbleness contrary to the young men who view sex as a means of power and proving a point.
Another sad thing is that most men do not even know their partner's 'g-spot', to them its all about rubbing, pinching and even biting women's body parts that are known to bring pleasure to women but that doesn't necessarily mean you should rub them like play dough.
And men pliz stop lying about how good you are in bed, talk is cheap, furthermore what upsets ladies most of the time is failed expectations.....just surprise us i hope that percentage increases.

Now to the guy i mentioned, pole for putting you on the spot i just wanted to make a point, am sure you handle your business where it needs handling, if you are good at what you do guys which am sure you are, you wont take offense. Those ten names are the only ones that i could think of from the top of my head, i dont know y'all, am not trying to point fingers so pliz do not take offense.

i just had to put this out for all the good, honest, brothas out there.

[mwolovi]

Originally Posted by barb

Am sick and tired of most mashada men bashing women, women should do this, should wear this, should marry at this age, yada, yada, yada.....i have some dirt on you men, ladies do you know that only 30% of men are able to satisfy a woman, let me make this more interesting, am gonna do a survey with some of the most popular males in mashada;
-muk
-east coast
-kkkk
-buster
-didier
-dotnet
-jasakwa
-sinbad
-tactician
-alja

let's do some elementary algebra here, out of these 10 men only 3 of them are able to satisfy a woman.
So this means that we ladies have a real problem coz men think that they are doing a bang up job in the bedroom but in reality they are not.
So what is the problem?? if you asked one of the guys where they learned about sex the obvious answers would be, from the hood, friends and the media, and this, i believe is the root of this predicament. Initial sex ed should be a father's responsibility to a son not from the hood.
I have also been doing research and i found out that older guys say in the ages of 40 and above are the best lovers, why?? because to them sex is about compatibility, keenness, humbleness contrary to the young men who view sex as a means of power and proving a point.
Another sad thing is that most men do not even know their partner's 'g-spot', to them its all about rubbing, pinching and even biting women's body parts that are known to bring pleasure to women but that doesn't necessarily mean you should rub them like play dough.
And men pliz stop lying about how good you are in bed, talk is cheap, furthermore what upsets ladies most of the time is failed expectations.....just surprise us i hope that percentage increases.

Now to the guy i mentioned, pole for putting you on the spot i just wanted to make a point, am sure you handle your business where it needs handling, if you are good at what you do guys which am sure you are, you wont take offense.

i just had to put this out for all the good, honest, brothas out there.

thank God, my name is not here,
pheew!!!

[barb]

Originally Posted by mwolovi

thank God, my name is not here,
pheew!!!

kweni you doubt yourself mwolovi??? are you one of the 'talkers'???
if you are a sexually secure man then there would be no need of the 'phewing' dont you think??

[Waite]

@barb,
This is a problem largely created by chics, and then they turn around and start complaining and blaming guys.

Think about it, if chics didn't make it so hard for a guy to access their "goodies", I'm sure more men would be better lovers. A single guy who probably gets puci only 3 or 4 times a year can never be compared with a married man who "practices" with his wife almost every night. Common sense will tell you who will be better in bed.

So if you want the percentage of men who are good in bed to go up, give it up some more ... and you'll surely be rewarded!

[mtoto mzuri]

Originally Posted by Waite

@barb,
This is a problem largely created by chics, and then they turn around and start complaining and blaming guys.

as ususal.... its always the women's fault

Originally Posted by Waite

Think about it, if chics didn't make it so hard for a guy to access their "goodies"

do you blame a chick for making ot so hard 2 acess her 'goodies'? she gives full access... she either gets called 'easy' or a slut. the other senario is that the jamaa just want to hit and run.

Originally Posted by Waite

I'm sure more men would be better lovers. A single guy who probably gets puci only 3 or 4 times a year can never be compared with a married man who "practices" with his wife almost every night. Common sense will tell you who will be better in bed.

many men( note i ddnt say all men) will still not be better lovers hata wakipewa 25/8. why? because they just want to cum and go. what about the woman? why not make love instead of sh.agging or facking?

Originally Posted by Waite

So if you want the percentage of men who are good in bed to go up, give it up some more ... and you'll surely be rewarded!

if a guy wants a woman to give it up somemre maybe the jamaa should be abit more patient with a chick and try not to make her feel like she's just there for the sex. for majority of women sex is much more than thrusting in and out in and out. when a guy realizes this... he will surely be rewarded

[FISI_1]

"ladies do you know that only 30% of men are able to satisfy a woman"

And what % of women can satisfy a man?

The day men and women realize that it takes 2 to tango,everybody will be happy.Don't expect to be satisfied if you do nothing in bed and start complaining that men are whack.You just lie there like a sack of potatoes.

If you don't have game (man or woman),no one in this world can satisfy you.

[mtoto mzuri]

Originally Posted by FISI_1

The day men and women realize that it takes 2 to tango,everybody will be happy.

i agree 101% on this!

[mo-uk]

lol----atleast my name is not on the list----------anyways all i can say it goes both ways.


I have to do following to get satisfication from my lady!
1- bring her flowers, after a hard days of work!
2- say yes to everthing she says no matter how mind buckling its.
3- tell her shes is the most beautiful lady on earth.
4- then i cross my fingers!

[Buster-]

This is a very tough discussion and sex is as individual as DNA.. for me for as long as my woman feels me, and she is happy and satisfied. You can write all the books in the world about sex and i wont buy.

I am yet to meet two women who have the same passions and desires in the bedroom.. So barb, take time and teach your man what you like, and learn what he likes.. and with that i believe good sex comes from a man who listens and cares enough to do what pleases her woman. One woman's sex god is another woman's masochist.

[moveon]

@Barb, Pole your dude isn't satisfying you.Teach him how to drive your body.Having sex with married men in their 40's is a temporary solution but is a recipe for disaster in future when his wife finds out or your sexually naive guy knows.For heaven's sake,just teach him!!