[barb]

Originally Posted by msema ukweli Kabisa

Just an advise, are you posting from your phone, if so am sorry but maze dont write like the way you write sms's. its very hard to read.

And another thing, what if the ring is not even your, lol was this the man you could not start a thread ago?

Yes am writing from my phone, but i will try to make it more legible, pole about that. You are right, the ring may not be mine, like i said he is acting like he wants to propose, am not sure if he is gonna but i was worried if does, that's where mashada cames in, and a bunch of advice from my friends but i want to hear it from a neutral party, by the way i could not make out what you meant in the last part of your comment, men writing like this is a real pain in the neck.

[barb]

Originally Posted by Alja

Don't kill yourself - you will hurt him ama utamwachia mwingine! Do not runaway coz utamuumiza. Accept the ring and then start plotting for the escape from there - polepole and ensure the parting is not that painful to either side! By then you will have kulad his money and raha with him coz it looks like that is what you want!

You know, i have no clue where you guys are coming up with the idea that i want his money?? honestly , did i say something that led you to believe that?? damn, pliz read the thread and understand it before posting a reply.

[msema ukweli Kabisa]

Most men r douchebags

thats what I meant, but its ok if you are posting using yoru phone, I would do the same thing too!!


anyway i am engaged to get married, and thats a very very important stage to cross especially for a man.

I know you would hate to disappoint him and all, but honestly its better to say no that agree to one of the most important request a man will ever ask

[Alja]

Originally Posted by barb

You know, i have no clue where you guys are coming up with the idea that i want his money?? honestly , did i say something that led you to believe that?? damn, pliz read the thread and understand it before posting a reply.

Cool, you have made it clear

[jaykam]

Lemme ask u this wouldnt i want 2 marry him 4 his money? Noooooo!!! Gold diggers dont marry, they prey on people.

........ N by the way he was very grateful after i cleaned the house, Ofcourse!!!! Cheap Merry Maids are always welcome, kwanza he gets to fack the maid too... Damn!!!

all in all, thx 4 taking your time...... Oh u welcome, fyi.... No one is marrying u soon, u've proven how stupid u r.

[okiedokes]

Originally Posted by jaykam

Lemme ask u this wouldnt i want 2 marry him 4 his money? Noooooo!!! Gold diggers dont marry, they prey on people.

........ N by the way he was very grateful after i cleaned the house, Ofcourse!!!! Cheap Merry Maids are always welcome, kwanza he gets to fack the maid too... Damn!!!

all in all, thx 4 taking your time...... Oh u welcome, fyi.... No one is marrying u soon, u've proven how stupid u r.

lol...that was so blunt Jaykam. Please, take it easy on the gyal, will ya? lol...I get your point but I think Barb needs our input. You know, the internet is one of the most difficult ways to relay ideas. Anyways, back to thread.

@ Barb...I have a question for ya. Are you not ready for marriage? or not ready to be married to him in particular? There is a difference ya know!

If you are not sure yet if you want to marry him in such a short time, and he proposes, you could politely ask him to give you time, say 6 months. He can ask you again then. But from what I've seen, most men usually wait until they are certain the woman's answer will be yes.

So he may start dropping subtle hints(you said he is acting like he will propose) and this will be a good time to have a serious discussion about what you think. Again, you don't know how long he has had that ring so he may have already noticed your reluctance to marriage hence he is waiting it out. A heart to heart is in order lady!

Alternatively, if you are just scared of marriage, then it's nothing some pre-marital counselling won't solve. All in all, it is best not to get into something you are not sure about.

[grip_daddy]

Why don't you try being more of an idiot? The idiocy you have so far displayed means you shouldn't bother anyone with your morning naggings, hopefully in the evening you'll be one tired freak.

[barb]

Originally Posted by jaykam

Lemme ask u this wouldnt i want 2 marry him 4 his money? Noooooo!!! Gold diggers dont marry, they prey on people.

........ N by the way he was very grateful after i cleaned the house, Ofcourse!!!! Cheap Merry Maids are always welcome, kwanza he gets to fack the maid too... Damn!!!

all in all, thx 4 taking your time...... Oh u welcome, fyi.... No one is marrying u soon, u've proven how stupid u r.

Arent u the woman who was preying on man who wanted nothing 2 do withchu? n dont u hv like kids n a hazi, y do u sound so bitter sweet thing? am gonna be the bigger person n leave u alone, coz i was taught 2 respect my elders n from wat i read u should be in a nursing hm somewhere, now i know being an immature human being as u r, ur gonna quote me, but am not gonna say anything 2 u, that would be good riddance from my thread, so get it over with sweetheart n we can get back 2 the pressing issue.

[barb]

Originally Posted by grip_daddy

Why don't you try being more of an idiot? The idiocy you have so far displayed means you shouldn't bother anyone with your morning naggings, hopefully in the evening you'll be one tired freak.

Oh my, here comes the hypocritical misogynist, who thinks that he is the only smart being in the world, i thought we had an unwritten, nonverbal agreement that u shouldn't cross my path n i wouldn't cross yours, i don't reason with stupid pple so pliz cupcake try not 2 cross my path.

[grip_daddy]

Originally Posted by barb

Oh my, here comes the hypocritical misogynist, who thinks that he is the only smart being in the world, i thought we had an unwritten, nonverbal agreement that u shouldn't cross my path n i wouldn't cross yours, i don't reason with stupid pple so pliz cupcake try not 2 cross my path.

If you had a written agreement with your silly sick head you ought not to have quoted me. Idiot. I don't write virtual agreements and as for your rotten options, try marrying the ring instead of the man.

You are an idiot fully immatured.