How sad, That Almost all guys here have not realized that there are women out there who only get better with age.
Barbs, I don't know why you are not ready to marry this Guy. May be you sense something, maybe He is not right for you or you are not right for him. I don't agree though that you should wait for him to pop the question (maybe as you said) Infront of a whole group of people and then you'll make your decission then or later. I think its a bad idea. Maybe you should talk about the future you envision for yourself and He'll either ran for the hills or come along and for both yours and his lifes journey whatever it maybe.
As for all the Neanderthalic posts on your thread, it is very disheartening to read from fellow Kenyans. Too much negativity and disrespect.
And Barbs if you and your Guy enjoy each other as a couple, enjoy. It all ends too soon. I know alot of Happily married men, and very few happily married women.
Peace
Njugus