[Waite]

I can't believe how naive you sound about this issue!
Dude has rashes on his deek, that's a BIG FACKING DEAL! I don't want to sound alarmist but have you ever heard of something called herpes???

Like someone suggested above, get yourself tested for every known std and if anything comes out positive, drop him like a hot potato! To me, that's the worst form of betrayal, way worse than cheating!

In the meantime, serve him with a verbal restraining order!

[al-zalzalah]

Originally Posted by Sanaa-

You can't wholly blame this jamaa, coz alikueleza but you went ahead and gave him head.
Chunga maisha yako, hakuna mtu atakayekuchungia.

sindiyo. when you have cause for alarm, you don't relax and just assume matters will take care of themselves.
should have insisted on him getting the bloodwork and on seeing the results.

[Wamax74.]

Originally Posted by Spankyou

I asked my partner if they had an std ever, even mono, and they said the worst they ever got was a urinary tract infection.

Majuzi, he round rashes in the shaft of his pii-pii. but the rashes stayed for like 7 days, and then dissappeared. He went to the doc, and he was scheduled for blood work, but the doc had told him he doesn't think its an issue. So he hadn't even gone to get tested/ blood work.

2 weeks passes, and he got the rashes again. He didn't tell me this time, he was acting weird though, then once after doing it, I was taking off the condom from his pii-pii and noticed the rashes, and I felt cheated. Especially because we have occasionally had unprotected sex.

What should I do? Should we break up? He lied to me, and he kept it secret the second time he got the rash, why did he do that? He has infected me and I am pissed off like really pissed off.

This is betrayal of a different kind, what should I do?

prepare to die, my friend. std=baaaad!