[Jay-R]

Originally Posted by stunner

So wouldn't that mean the score is even? men have the same sh!it yall got.



well it depends what the man wants from that pudesh...hit it and quit, or hit it and bank it. The latter can't work on BROKE women, that ass gotta be relegated to the former. This is 2008.

care to explain further why men seem just fine with housewives (read earns nothing )???? in this 2008

[dotNet]

Originally Posted by stunner

well it depends what the man wants from that pudesh...hit it and quit, or hit it and bank it. The latter can't work on BROKE women, that ass gotta be relegated to the former. This is 2008.

Thats wat am talkin about.. wats this talk about pudesh kila saa? Gurls need to realize that times when u could hold a man hostage coz you got a warm middle spot zimepita.. damn the no. of women on the streets has tripled

Fraggy.. u getting it all wrong.. I meant the 20's who go for 40's. Aint nothing about maturity hapo... ni siasa tu. Then something else I heard over the radio.. gurls aint got firepower.. a young lady below 30 cant work a 26yr old dude well.. thats why they get the 1 shot dudes. Older women get down better than these young fries and thats a fact.

[dotNet]

Originally Posted by Jay-R

care to explain further why men seem just fine with housewives (read earns nothing )???? in this 2008

Somewhere along ur bloodline there was a housewife.. show some respect. Then say some men.. not men.

Some men love women they can dominate over.. some love women who take control. Control doesn't mean you soma soma.. and get 6 figures. Thats where women go wrong, they think they know it all.. and this is the nature most men detest. When a lady starts to act like ye ndo anajua.. that man will start coming home to sleep.. and see his kids.

By the way... whats low income? Like I said.. when a woman gets to a level anafeel she has made it.. most start to loose respect for men. Then they try to shift the balance of nature, a man will always be held higher than a woman. ALWAYS!!, even God gave us a son people.

[Type R]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

Believe it or not,to some woman,that "broke" musician/mathematician or whoever is not as broke as you think.Brokeness is relative.To her that man may be everything.

...Enyewe its all about class.People should date within their circles.

If a low wage dude waits for true love to pull a woman across the meagre-income barrier into his arms, he'll be waiting years. Imagine that loneliness!!!! becoz in that period, no/limited pudesh, no/limited soft hot squirming body between the sheets.

I encourage boys and girls to venture outside their socio-economic circles. Date up and date down. Remember Kijana Wamalwa, and his barefoot ingo villager to daughter-of-a-millionaire (his first wife) approach!

Originally Posted by Hermione

This classing of people and their various actions together coz of a common characteristic; be it gender, tribe, colour, etc,etc is getting a bit old. If X 'fears a low income brothers' what is it to Y? And then again what is it to you?

Men try to get girlfriends/lays/wives, that is just nature. And these are the experiences we go thru, and the observations we make as we cross the rough social terrain.

[Jay-R]

Originally Posted by dotNet

Somewhere along ur bloodline there was a housewife.. show some respect. Then say some men.. not men.

Some men love women they can dominate over.. some love women who take control. Control doesn't mean you soma soma.. and get 6 figures. Thats where women go wrong, they think they know it all.. and this is the nature most men detest. When a lady starts to act like ye ndo anajua.. that man will start coming home to sleep.. and see his kids.

By the way... whats low income? Like I said.. when a woman gets to a level anafeel she has made it.. most start to loose respect for men. Then they try to shift the balance of nature, a man will always be held higher than a woman. ALWAYS!!, even God gave us a son people.

sasa kaa nimesoma si its obvious ninajua sana.....n as for ua being rated higher never mind sooner than later you will b rated lower....n hence all these tantrums y'all r throwing in here... mumeona dalili ....

[Type R]

Originally Posted by dotNet

.. when a woman gets to a level anafeel she has made it.. most start to loose respect for men.

There is a growing class of women in Nairobi (maybe Kenya all over, but let me speak for what I see). They are lawyers, doctors, marketers, public relationers, human resourcers, and a few other professions. What with "diva" bank accounts and loans, these women are doing better than their men who went into "tough" careers esp science & engineering like mechanical engineering, software development, web design, civil and chemical engineering, construction, architecture.

So you have a wife with a brand new showroom VW Passat, hubby in the Ministry of Works, talking about how bad Metro Shuttle drivers are. He's happy with kids in a City Council school (he went to one), she wants Makini/Braeburn. I think this marriage is on the rocks.

As I go out these days, I see more and more all-women groups in restaurants, bars (I saw Kaz this week with one such group, but that's a side-point, don't let it hijack this thread).

[dotNet]

Originally Posted by Jay-R

sasa kaa nimesoma si its obvious ninajua sana.....n as for ua being rated higher never mind sooner than later you will b rated lower....n hence all these tantrums y'all r throwing in here... mumeona dalili ....

Correction, the people who matter have rated already , ratings from online souls don't matter much.. cept when there has been actual contact and not just threads and posts.

Back to the issue: Women need to stop this.. lets get better than men thing. Men never compete with women.. at least the ones I know.. we do our thing, it comes naturally. Ubaya women have some kind of competition to show/prove a point and waste too much time on it. Thats my 2cents.

[Jay-R]

Originally Posted by dotNet

Correction, the people who matter have rated already , ratings from online souls don't matter much.. cept when there has been actual contact and not just threads and posts.

Back to the issue: Women need to stop this.. lets get better than men thing. Men never compete with women.. at least the ones I know.. we do our thing, it comes naturally. Ubaya women have some kind of competition to show/prove a point and waste too much time on it. Thats my 2cents.

stop playing ignorant ,we all know men r much more competitive than women ,n it simply kills them if they happen to b outdone by women...get used n keep that old age ego in the closet no one needs it...

[dotNet]

Originally Posted by Jay-R

....get used n keep that old age ego in the closet no one needs it...

Tsk... spoken like a real learned/intelligent woman. Next thread

[mo-uk]

There is this old saying which rings true;
Don't ask a woman about her age nor a man about his money.


Under no circumstances should ANY woman EVER know exactly how much money you make and have a list of all your assets. << the only exception to this rule is when you're on your deathbed.

Once you have that discipline down then let your woman spend her income as she sees fit. Lets see how spendy she gets when she's under the belief that we're teetering on the edge of financial disaster.