[ciceraw]

this is the first scenario that comes to my mind...quite surprised nobody mention it.

You must be a US citizen and the dude has a clear mission. Expect him to skip makaratasi ziki iva.

[milanya]

Originally Posted by Bridgette

Hi people,

I am abit confused....maybe am getting paranoid
Its just that I cheated on my boyfriend.I am not proud of it at all and I have never done such a thing.I love my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 years.My conscience was killing me so I told him what i did.I expected the worst and I was ready to do anything for him to forgive me.

What confuses me is that he forgave me without much fuss!He was hurt ofcourse but everything seems to be back to normal.He never talks about it anymore.Infact he has been so good to me.Too good infact.

Am worried however.People could he be up to something?Does he plan to get back at me when I least expect it?Or has he also cheated on me so this is just 2 wrongs making a right?



Sort me out people please.

1. He doesn't have the balls to leave...unhealthy men want unhealthy women.
2. He is just hanging onto you so he can get some while he finds your replacement

[ikea]

Originally Posted by milanya

1. He doesn't have the balls to leave...unhealthy men want unhealthy women.
2. He is just hanging onto you so he can get some while he finds your replacement

Yep

[aluochnora]

Originally Posted by pritijo

Never cheat and tell. Now look what you put yourself into

i agree with you pritijo...i find it so dumped to cheat on your partner then later on tell him/her about it...you don't expect honey to come flowing out of his mouth!

[U.F.O]

Originally Posted by msema ukweli Kabisa

ok first lets get off all this high horse, well you cheated you got busted and the guy took you back
first and foremost guys are really not like chics, we are not vengeful, it takes too much effort and we are too lazy. a chic thinks with her heart and she will want to get back to, remember as they say, hell knows no fury like a woman scorned. remember the phrase woman

anyway your boy is cool and I will tell you why, he is also nyanduaring someone or someones, and also his life is too comfortable with you being around and he does not want to rock the boat,

But now just remember, he has some major cheating coupons that he will eventually cash in. And guess what he will always be using against you

BABY REMEMBER I FORGAVE YOU TOO..

so anyway my best advise is wait ................... actually now, dont get caught again or ever, lol

i have to agree with you on that one. she should also pray the dude doesn't come across another nice chic coz she's getting dumped...

[diezzle]

if the dude is kenyan, your story is pretty much done, he'll take you for a ride and then drop you when you are most venerable. your mom must have told you cheating is not right. now you see what happens when you dont heed to her advice.

[Fraglante]

Dayuuum girl!!! Isaid in another forum dont you read?Dont cheat and tell!
If you have to cheat leave it at that.Infact get it out of your mind that it happened.If you convince yourself it never happened it wount haunt you and therefor you wount be forced by guilt to confess.Easy

[Bridgette]

Well people am back.Been gone afew days and I have just read your responses.Some of you have been really harsh but I expected that.I guess if I couldnt get it from my boyfriend I had to get it from somewhere.Thanks for that I actually feel better.....I deserved it.Others have been very nice and understanding.Thank you too.

You might be wondering what is going on with me and him?Well he is still nice.Now am convinced he isnt acting.I prefer to be optimistic.I choose to believe he isnt playing mind games with me.I will love him with all I have got.I wunt ask any questions.He is taking me on a trip to coast this weekend.I have done shopping.... yani sexy lingerie and bathing suit,body soufle,massage fragrances and oils etc....(and I have spruced up my appearance).I will try make it up to him.(I just pray he isnt planning on ditching me while there.....damn I have to get those thoughts out of my head).

Some one asked why I cheated?Well I dont know.I cant explain.It was just a stupid mistake.The guy is not worth losing my man for.He is good.....for eye candy but he didnt even match up to my man(in bed...or in any other way).And NO I dont want him anymore.

Some one else said my boyfriend might be popping the question soon oooh I hope so and if he does am saying yes...(I pray he wunt leave me standing at the alter as his revenge....damn!got to get that out of my head!)

Thanks everyone.

[moto kama pasi]

I like you Bridgette, is that how to spell that name??? Well...... it does not matter. That man has forgiven you because you were woman enough to face up to your mistakes. And dont be fooled, he is hurting like hell and its upon you to make him feel loved. he may never trust you for as long as you live but he will stay with you, in fact he will be happy with you.

Go to Coast, have fun and if the sh-it hits the fan, babe you tried your best. And you said you are sorry. But i doubt he will leave you considering what you have planned for him.... hihihihi

[pritijo]

Originally Posted by Bridgette

Well people am back.Been gone afew days and I have just read your responses.Some of you have been really harsh but I expected that.I guess if I couldnt get it from my boyfriend I had to get it from somewhere.Thanks for that I actually feel better.....I deserved it.Others have been very nice and understanding.Thank you too.

You might be wondering what is going on with me and him?Well he is still nice.Now am convinced he isnt acting.I prefer to be optimistic.I choose to believe he isnt playing mind games with me.I will love him with all I have got.I wunt ask any questions.He is taking me on a trip to coast this weekend.I have done shopping.... yani sexy lingerie and bathing suit,body soufle,massage fragrances and oils etc....(and I have spruced up my appearance).I will try make it up to him.(I just pray he isnt planning on ditching me while there.....damn I have to get those thoughts out of my head).

Some one asked why I cheated?Well I dont know.I cant explain.It was just a stupid mistake.The guy is not worth losing my man for.He is good.....for eye candy but he didnt even match up to my man(in bed...or in any other way).And NO I dont want him anymore.

Some one else said my boyfriend might be popping the question soon oooh I hope so and if he does am saying yes...(I pray he wunt leave me standing at the alter as his revenge....damn!got to get that out of my head!)

Thanks everyone.

There are only two ways here; either you're the luckiets girl alive...ama, guys, watch this space!!!