Abortion Are you pro choice/pro life????

ikea · (#1 (**permalink**))

Personally I'm pro choice.If a girl/woman decides they want to have an abortion then they should have the freedom to get one. Yeah I know what you are thinking... its sin and murder. Well that is true but who says you are a saint? You sin too don't you... by choice so why cant women/girls make their own choice to sin or not? Who/what gives you the right to cast the 1st stone? Pls let me know

illiad · (#2 (**permalink**))

I am totally aganist abortion. My advise is simple. Pregancy is a direct product of unsafe sex. Why don't you girls and women have safe sex. It is that simple. Abortion is taboo, please respect God given life. If you want a child, have unprotected sex, but do not kill IT - it has its God give right of existence!

ikea · (#3 (**permalink**))

[quote=illiad;427902]I am totally aganist abortion. My advise is simple. Pregancy is a direct product of unsafe sex. Why don't you girls and women have safe sex. It is that simple. Abortion is taboo, please respect God given life. If you want a child, have unprotected sex, but do not kill IT - it has its God give right of existence![/QUOTE

**Spoken like an idiot***
It takes 2 to tangle don't 4get. Why is your emphasis on women? Babies are made by man n woman.Men and women should use protection but shyt happens and I'm sure you ain't no saint so you don't have a say as to what one wants to do with their body.How about letting God be the judge not you!!!!

okiedokes · (#4 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by illiad

I am totally aganist abortion. My advise is simple. Pregancy is a direct product of unsafe sex. Why don't you girls and women have safe sex. It is that simple. Abortion is taboo, please respect God given life. If you want a child, have unprotected sex, but do not kill IT - it has its God give right of existence!

Don't know what century you are living in but have u heard of birth control methods failing? Even condoms aren't 100% effective, in fact no contraceptive method is 100% effective. Add this to improper use of condoms, antibiotics that can affect effectiveness of contraceptive methods and accidents can and will occur sometimes. Even the 'morning after pill' though effective for up to 5 days works best when used with 72 hrs of unprotected sex,missed pill, or condom breaks. And yes, i'm pro-choice. A woman should decide what she wants to do when it comes to her body! With all these kids in foster care,on the streets etc, what's really the difference? Some of their parents didn't plan on having these kids yet they brought them into the world to suffer anyway.

U.F.O · (#5 (**permalink**))

i believe the woman should have a right to choose.
but if you have to do it, do it as early as possible. once that featus starts moving and kicking, doing it would really freak me out if i was a woman, unless recommended by a doctor...

moto kama pasi · (#6 (**permalink**))

This is a delicate issue. No side can be right or wrong. it all depends on the situation of the parties involved.

Telvin · (#7 (**permalink**))

I am prolife and would care less. There are times when abortion is a choice and doctors do make this decision as a medical decision not you walking in there and demanding one. I will say though that the right to choice is important but so is the right to say yes or no to sex. I have always thought that if you know you can't deal with raising children, then you should not be involved with any activity that can get you pregnant! Some people try to excuse rape as warranting abortion but I say no. It is obviously sad that you would have to carry this child we can't sacrifice society for you. What if you daughter is in a terrible accident and she is deformed and remain disabled for the rest of you life? Are you going to anesthetize her? Well, that is where society is heading. We want to kill the "unwanted" but I tell you that you can sacrifice your soul all you want but there is a price that we pay as society.
In the 21st century, there are way so many contraceptives that you can use to avoid pregnancy. You and your spouse can even double (maybe condom and pills) if you so much dread babies since contraceptives may not be 100% effective. It is for the above reason that I say society should not pay for your mistake of getting pregnant or if you decided to change you mind. At least have dignity to give up child for adoption.
The most stupid argument I have ever heard is where life begins. A lot of people try to use biological and legal technicalities to confuse us but there is nothing to it. The fact is that the only way you can stop a child from being born is by KILLING IT. I would like someone to clearly explain how you kill non living organisms. I would like you to describe killing a stone. The fact is that you have to INTERRUPT a pregnancy otherwise, you are going to give birth to a creature! Stop justifying yourself. I would rather someone be honest and say she is stupid enough to have sex and get pregnant and now she wants to kill the baby. I will at least agree that it is honest.

okiedokes · (#8 (**permalink**))

Too bad but i guess that's a fight u will pursue alone. What are u talking about adoption? Can u carry a child for 9months and give it up just like that? Many couples who adopt are usually nice at frist but as soon as they receive ur kid they move and change numbers. They no longer want u in that child's life eventhough they agreed to it at first. So if u carry it to term, u should raise the child imo. You can still double on protection and i must say that someone i know was born as a result of condom+pills use. So again, they are not all that effective but sure highly effective than using one alone. One alone is effective enough if properly used.

lulu80 · (#9 (**permalink**))

Reasons i support abortion:

-If a woman conceives as a result of rape, can you imagine her carrying an unwanted child of rape for nine months? thats torture. As if the rape itself wasn't punishment enough, she has to carry a reminder and live with it for the rest of her life?

-In the cases of incest which in most cases results from rape, do you expect a woman to carry a child who will be a constant reminder of the shame she had to endure? imagine your dad, uncle or grand dad raping you then you get pregnant and have to carry the child????? is there anything worse than that?

-Admitedly, accidents do happen and not all birth control methods are 100% but in the Kenyan society, it's the woman who bears the total burden as the guy bails out on her. How do you suppose a 16 yr old is capable of taking care of this kid?

-If a woman already has many kids and gets pregnant again.....be it accidental, how do you suppose she is going to cope with an extra mouth to feed?

My conlusion is this, let everyone bear their own cross. No on gets an abortion because they love it, they get it because circumstances are tough. Before pple start being judgemental ebu wak in some of these womens' shoes and jua whats up before screaming murder. Some of their stories will just move you to tears.

okiedokes · (#10 (**permalink**))

I second that lulu08....great answer. I mean if someone hasn't walked in a woman's shoes they need to take a step back and evaluate before screaming murder. I watched this documentary, filmed in ukraine i think. A man let his best friend travel with his wife to hook her up with a nanny/housekeeping job in turkey. The best friend sold this man's wife to a pimp and she was forced to prostitute herself to pay the cost of buying her. And she was pregnant with her husband's child at the time. She got beatings from the pimp, and the pimp's wife b/c she couldn't take in many customers. To avoid the beatings,she had an abortion in order to get more customers and pay her debt fast. Now tell me if she really wanted an abortion or she just had no choice!