Jasakwa..U.F.O nailed it..if ur woman respects you, she will not never prolong convo with other jamaaz, or cheka cheka in ur presence...U.F.O
Then again, mwambie, see how she reacts, expect two types..
1. she will ask u, kwani u are that insecure? Yenyewe if u cant handle that kind of talk or those kind of moves, its berra to let her know, and if no compromise bail out.
2. she will sema..'oh i didnt know' good u told me..and she will reform.