[DudeX]

>Also, is this guy just a typical guy using his culture as an
>excuse for being a typical male? Polygamy is not "legal" in
>the USA, however people do it. I am open to it, but the 1st
>wife makes it incredibly difficult. Who is supposed to "where
>the pants" in this type of arrangements, the man or the wife?
>Any advice?


Let me indulge you, there is this story of an American woman who came to A Kenyan School, The Kenya Methodist University. This guy sees him and really bridges with him. Then he request for an intercultural exchange in the guise of the woman & him praying in their respective cultures. The woman goes 1st and prays to God casually as anyone would. The dude then goes on to pray in Kikuyu, touches her breasts and behind at the end pf the prayer and says its his culture.
Your pick.

[truthandlies]

LMAO!!

[MtotoTuto]

I have it heard enough from American men,wanting to go to Africa because it is ok to have more than one woman there.I have some news for you,even the men back in Africa....can not handle it Now any way back in the day when our fore fathers did it,it was different.One of me grandfathers had 7 wives,each one of them had her own house,regardless of the size or whatever she had her own.There are responsibilities that comes with it,the wives learn to live together...if u are not feeling it u could always leave.And the man had to provide for each one of them,it is ok for him to have a fav wife but he had to provide for all of them.Being the man of the house back then meant something.
I could be wrong here but your situation is tricky......are u sure that every thing about what you have with him has been communicated to every one like it should have? Do u have the details of what he has with his Kenyan wife? U either are or u are not? A mistress u could be among other things.