What can one do in such a situation?

[crazybeautiful]

I have a friend..she broke up with her ex six months ago, Just recently, she found out that her first cousin is sleeping with her ex....what can she do? Put in mind that this is a man she trusted with her whole heart and the worst thing is that she is still in love with him. Her cousin on the other hand, is a malaya that has a way with men.....for some reason she can turn mens head with a flip of her little hand.....My friend is in hell...she doesnt know what to do....She only knows that her love has turned to hate..hate so strong she is afraid she might end up doing something stupid....please tell me what to tell her for I really dont have any idea how to help her.....

[Jnderitu]

6 month??? Tell her to get a life and know she has a long life ahead full of happiness and joy.
Hate is dangeous and it can lead to serious blunders so tell her to cool down and focus her energies somewhere else.

[MercedesK]

What you dont know dont hurt ya. Tell her to keep away from them and any information pertaining thereof.

[oneliner]

Merc, tell her to stop worrying. The horrible feeling in her tummy? the feeling of betrayal? guess what? It will eventually go away!

'Absence is to love, what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small...but inflames the great'

[Oprah]

It's really sad what happened and we cannot afford to overlook the fact that she was so in love with him and that she'd given her all to him. However, tell your friend she must move on in life. She cannot afford to wallow in misery any longer....besides, she is young and she has her whole life ahead of her. He is by no means the only fish in the damn sea. He also isn't the beginning of her life nor must she make him the end thereof.

I believe that women should develop a backbone as strong as a man's that when this kind of thing happens, they just move on and keep on living. Tell her to forcus on following her dreams in life and achieving them for herself and put this man behind her completely he cannot rule her life any longer and it's time she let go.

[kumazuri]

It seems "your friend" is allowing her hurt to turn into hate because of the betrayal from both . I mean she needs to move on and when something is tooken or you let it go it will come back to her. In this case her cousin did her a favor, it seemed he would have done this her no matter who it was. She needs to look to the lord to help guide herself. It's gonna be alright, I would never allow someone unworthy to make me unworthy.......kuma'

[Wa Mahuthu]

Your friend has to realize that love sucks!! and the guy is not worth it. I would not get all emotional and hateful over a relationship because they come and go. She needs to move on and leave the caucass to her cousin(the Hyena).
Moveb on!!!!!!

[isso]

I really don't know what all the drama is about.

1. If you haven't realised that you've broken up with a guy even after 6 months, you've got real issues.

2. The guy has moved on with his life and happily getting goods. It's obvious he feels nothing anymore for the first party.

3. What's the deal with being jealous about an ex. Well he's sleeping with your cousin...It could be worse, just be glad it ain't your sister. There are bigger things to worry about in this world than your cousine screwing a loser...Afghani kids are dying by the day in the bitter winter...India and Pakistan are at the brink of war over Kashmiri militant groups...Palestinians are besieged by Israeli troops and they're killing Israelis left, right and centre using suicide bombers, Sydney is under threat of being burnt down by serious bush fires, millions of people live as refugees displaced in the world, but Nooo! lets get pissed coz' an ex boyfriend has moved on with his life and is screwing your cousin...Like I said, it could be worse, just be glad it ain't your sis.

Girl should get over dude and move on with her life...I suggest she finds someone decent and gets laid, it will relieve her of a lot of pressure.

[stupak]

@ Isso :7 :7 Oh Lordy lordy lordy!

[y5next]

>@ Isso :7 :7 Oh Lordy lordy lordy!

And she couldn't get better advice from trash TV.

:-)