Sanaa and Frag nina swali linalo....

[jogich]

nisumbua akili..smtime back you squeezes wrote smthing that i have bn tryin to get off my mind bila luck till imebidi niulizee...You two once wrote that if a young male jamaa have lots of sex during his early years as in ma 20's by the time he gets late 40's hata kuamsha baba kanush itakuwa shida..any truth in that????

Take ds as a very serious thread.

[Jalejo]

jogich, thats plain hogwash, a man will always rise to the occassion unless ofcourse one is suffering from erectile disfunction. whether one screws like hell wen in the 20s does not matter. only thing to watch out for is erectile disfunction. ED is also known to be hereditary. there r two types of ED, mild ED and the strong ED. with mild, u rise to the occasion but u dont last long or its not hard enuff and after u ejaculate, u cant rise again for some hours, with the strong ED, ur baba kanush just doesnt even yawn even if beyonce places her puccy right next to ur kanush. but there r drugs that take care of these conditions.

[Type R]

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[Fraglante]

Jogich
I think you misunderstood. We did not say that. What we said was that a certain lifestyle tires out a man. The lifestyle we were talking about is characterised by self abuse and ‘wasting’ ones self.

If how you interpreted it held any truth, then most men would be impotent considering they have regular sex in their current relationships.

JFYI, self abuse includes: playing/promiscuity hence contracting a variety of STI’s, self neglect which leads to progression of the STI’s resulting in irreversible damage, alcohol/drug abuse which of course hinders sexual performance, exposure to constant emotional battering which in the long run renders one emotionally handicapped and with a lot of emotional baggage. etc.

[jogich]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

Jogich
I think you misunderstood. We did not say that. What we said was that a certain lifestyle tires out a man. The lifestyle we were talking about is characterised by self abuse and ‘wasting’ ones self.

If how you interpreted it held any truth, then most men would be impotent considering they have regular sex in their current relationships.

JFYI, self abuse includes: playing/promiscuity hence contracting a variety of STI’s, self neglect which leads to progression of the STI’s resulting in irreversible damage, alcohol/drug abuse which of course hinders sexual performance, exposure to constant emotional battering which in the long run renders one emotionally handicapped and with a lot of emotional baggage. etc.

I think you need to understand the mind of a guy operates tofauti from a chic..as in a guy can just have sex and its just sex and he wll actually sahau he had sex wd dat woman so hio mambo ya emotional baggage may not fit here..abt the sti's that cld be right if one ain't carefully but chics are the one most exposed here...lemmi tell u smthing i have discovered while wid a chic kwa bed.

They are vulnerable..as in romance her vizuri kabisa and she is all wet..majority of them are so so so carried away that they wldn't mind if u "enter" them bilaz all they want is u to ingiza ur baba kanush...actually they kinda force u uwaingieee.now wat is that???!!!!!!..on my part i have always bn careful and actually its bn v looooong since i had sex bila a cd.

[mumgy]

Originally Posted by jogich

I think you need to understand the mind of a guy operates tofauti from a chic..as in a guy can just have sex and its just sex and he wll actually sahau he had sex wd dat woman so hio mambo ya emotional baggage may not fit here..abt the sti's that cld be right if one ain't carefully but chics are the one most exposed here...lemmi tell u smthing i have discovered while wid a chic kwa bed.

They are vulnerable..as in romance her vizuri kabisa and she is all wet..majority of them are so so so carried away that they wldn't mind if u "enter" them bilaz all they want is u to ingiza ur baba kanush...actually they kinda force u uwaingieee.now wat is that???!!!!!!..on my part i have always bn careful and actually its bn v looooong since i had sex bila a cd.

Jogich this is where you get it all wrong. Just because the girl wants it without protection does not mean she is the only one vulnerable to STI. You are both at risk for contracting infection. You could get it from her. 1 in 5 Kenyans are HIV positive. If I were you and the girl insisted on sex without protecton, I would run!

Since the wuestion in the post was not directed at me, I will hold my thoughts on it.

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by jogich

I think you need to understand the mind of a guy operates tofauti from a chic..as in a guy can just have sex and its just sex and he wll actually sahau he had sex wd dat woman so hio mambo ya emotional baggage may not fit here.

I beg to differ. Any socially well adjusted person, male or female will have some level of emotional attachment with the person they have sex with. I know to men, sex is more automated than it is emotional.

But ask yourself this: why is it that some men vow to become players after heart break? Is it not to protect themselves from the emotional hurt they experienced from the heart break? Which means there were feelings involved.

Why is it that some men get so enraged (even to a point of physical violence) when they learn hat their spouse has cheated on them? Is it not because they feel emotionally violated? Meaning, there was an emotional bond developed by the physical intimacy.

If it was purely mechanical, it would be no big deal.

These men that sleep around and forget the people they slept with are the ones who am talking about- they are promiscuous emotionally handicapped men laden with baggage. So much that they cannot connect emotionally anymore. They **** and forget **** and forget….like robots.

You don’t forget your 1st sexual encounter. Why? Because then you were fresh, your heart was intact…you had no emotional baggage.

[salutes]

[QUOTE=Fraglante;843711]I beg to differ. Any socially well adjusted person, male or female will have some level of emotional attachment with the person they have sex with. I know to men, sex is more automated than it is emotional.

But ask yourself this: why is it that some men vow to become players after heart break? Is it not to protect themselves from the emotional hurt they experienced from the heart break? Which means there were feelings involved.

Why is it that some men get so enraged (even to a point of physical violence) when they learn hat their spouse has cheated on them? Is it not because they feel emotionally violated? Meaning, there was an emotional bond developed by the physical intimacy.

If it was purely mechanical, it would be no big deal.

This is not entirely true. Consider this:
A man picks up a prostitute from Kstreet, sh.ags her and goes home to fondle the wife!!!!
A man sh.ag.s the sister to the wife, the mboch, the company secretary...etc, even when the man has no idea what her second name is.

To men, its about the warmth, tightness and wetness (all three combined) then as an added advantage, the face value, the size of the behind (it should be as generous as a baobab tree, to make his ego more satisfied), nowadays, men sh.ag those independent type hopeless women sticks with ash on their eyelids and red mascara on their lips just to prove that the p.uss.y is as normal as that one of the mboch, unfotunately, men realise that the mboch has a far sweeter pu.ss.y.

In addition, men screw these women in sympathy, as in she is sooo independent but the overreliance on her dildos ain't makes her happy. So a man, being teh gift to society, agrees to support such a woman, cause all that p.u.ss.y is going to waste!!!!

What was teh question again......Sorry, you asked frag and sanaa-


Ciao....

[jogich]

Originally Posted by mumgy

Jogich this is where you get it all wrong. Just because the girl wants it without protection does not mean she is the only one vulnerable to STI. You are both at risk for contracting infection. You could get it from her. 1 in 5 Kenyans are HIV positive. If I were you and the girl insisted on sex without protecton, I would run!

Since the wuestion in the post was not directed at me, I will hold my thoughts on it.

No Mumgy the thread is for everybody here..i jst quoted sanaa n frag as they brought up ds issue.

You misquoted me cos wat i meant is tht gals moment are more vurnerable as at the heat of the momoment they throw all the protection measures to the wind.

[jogich]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

I beg to differ. Any socially well adjusted person, male or female will have some level of emotional attachment with the person they have sex with. I know to men, sex is more automated than it is emotional.

But ask yourself this: why is it that some men vow to become players after heart break? Is it not to protect themselves from the emotional hurt they experienced from the heart break? Which means there were feelings involved.

Why is it that some men get so enraged (even to a point of physical violence) when they learn hat their spouse has cheated on them? Is it not because they feel emotionally violated? Meaning, there was an emotional bond developed by the physical intimacy.

If it was purely mechanical, it would be no big deal.

These men that sleep around and forget the people they slept with are the ones who am talking about- they are promiscuous emotionally handicapped men laden with baggage. So much that they cannot connect emotionally anymore. They **** and forget **** and forget….like robots.

You don’t forget your 1st sexual encounter. Why? Because then you were fresh, your heart was intact…you had no emotional baggage.

Well you are viewin from a totally diff level..chali/manzi relationshp..and yeah you are right many players were once hurt..I was once hurt bt i don't call myself a player...A guy can have sex with a chic and its just sex na hiyo story inaisha...n thats where most gals go wrong..just cos we had sex doesnt mean i wanted a relationshp...gals shld learn to diff btn the two.