Sanaa and Frag nina swali linalo....

[KEMINOKANA]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

I beg to differ. Any socially well adjusted person, male or female will have some level of emotional attachment with the person they have sex with. I know to men, sex is more automated than it is emotional.

But ask yourself this: why is it that some men vow to become players after heart break? Is it not to protect themselves from the emotional hurt they experienced from the heart break? Which means there were feelings involved.

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The first paragraph is wrong. Any socially well adjusted person should be able to have sex without emotional attachment. It's the mentally unstable who should. Otherwise you are telling us that you are emotionally attached to all the men you've laid? What a burden that would be.

The second paragraph: Not necessarily. It can also be because he has learned the uselessness of being emotionally attached to a woman just because he inserted his wowo into her meme.

[KEMINOKANA]

Originally Posted by Jalejo

Frag,

dont take the high road here, u r conveniently choosing not to recognise the fact that the mboch, independent woman, shag mate etc is also as u say 'not socially well adjusted, plain and simple'. the knife cutts both ways and the shag mates also dont involve their emotions in these little booty calls.

these days women r known to play as hard as men and sleep around with their mechanics, drivers, house boys etc, so there is no use for u to lable men names and stay silent on ladies. kama wote ni fisi, wote ni fisi!!!

That is just elitist hogwash. Why would housemaids, prostitutes be somehow social misfits to have sex with but not investment bankers other than pure elitism? And on what standards does one decide that he/she isn't a social misfit seeing there will always be people a class higher than everyone else? A human is a human or in crude oil terms, a barrel of oil is a barrel of oil regardless of the container.

It also doesnt follow logic that if one has several sex mates, he's socially unstable if there's a possibility of having sex without emotional attachment. That's illogical.

[jogich]

Originally Posted by didier

jalejo and co..nowadays ladies can act more like dudes..with no feelings,now since jogich on your fcbook you have just admitted to watchin tormenta en el paraiso aka storm over paradise soap opera..wat can you say about karina rosenborg??..doesn't she diff btn passion and gold digging and love???

Dont even start abt Karina cos she is a gal on her own class...hot but evil now thats a bit kinky.

[infinitepyro]

I love the way Frag replies for both 'em mamacitaz. Yes Ladies and Gentlemen, but ladies especially, the prodigal one returns.

[Jalejo]

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

That is just elitist hogwash. Why would housemaids, prostitutes be somehow social misfits to have sex with but not investment bankers other than pure elitism? And on what standards does one decide that he/she isn't a social misfit seeing there will always be people a class higher than everyone else? A human is a human or in crude oil terms, a barrel of oil is a barrel of oil regardless of the container.

It also doesnt follow logic that if one has several sex mates, he's socially unstable if there's a possibility of having sex without emotional attachment. That's illogical.

i realy feel like answering u but i just dont know how to start simply coz uve interpreted (and in ur mind uve twisted) my post to suit urself so as to justify wat u term as elitist hogwash. ur entitled to ur opinion and no one will deny u that.

my opinion vis a vis Frag's opinions are all there for all to read, so kindly stop trying to introduce some weird dimensions to wat ive posted, as for Frag, she can talk/post for herself.

[leopardo]

Originally Posted by jogich

nisumbua akili..smtime back you squeezes wrote smthing that i have bn tryin to get off my mind bila luck till imebidi niulizee...You two once wrote that if a young male jamaa have lots of sex during his early years as in ma 20's by the time he gets late 40's hata kuamsha baba kanush itakuwa shida..any truth in that????

Take ds as a very serious thread.

How did frag and sanaa know? Did they google or they have been tasting the 20s and 40s old tools.

[leopardo]

Originally Posted by mumgy

Jogich this is where you get it all wrong. Just because the girl wants it without protection does not mean she is the only one vulnerable to STI. You are both at risk for contracting infection. You could get it from her. 1 in 5 Kenyans are HIV positive. If I were you and the girl insisted on sex without protecton, I would run!

Since the wuestion in the post was not directed at me, I will hold my thoughts on it.

1 in 5 Kenyans are HIV positive?, prove your statistics. Or this re the type of romours zinatu-aribia sifa.

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by Jalejo

Thats all ive EVER wanted to see u write.

I call a spade a spade.

Originally Posted by jogich

lungularin outside its just happens-men find themselves doing it.

...Now that has made me feel content..gracias.

LOL I dont know what you were trying to achieve by saying this but you are just proving my point.Some men(they know themselves ) are beyond help.

No matter what you do, they just cant keep it zipped up.They are not well adjusted PERIOD!

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

The first paragraph is wrong. Any socially well adjusted person should be able to have sex without emotional attachment.

No! Thats like saying that it is second nature to **** anything thing with a *****. Can we please leave that to animals?

Human beings have the ability to make informed choices based on knowledge and experience.These knowledge and experience is thickly coated with feelings (what differentiates us from animals) and there is no way we can separate the two.

Those who have no emotion toward their sexual partners are the minority and we are not going to sit here and discuss the minority.We acknowledge they exist and leave it at that. Discussing them is a waste of time.Their case is already closed as far as am concerned.

The second paragraph: Not necessarily. It can also be because he has learned the uselessness of being emotionally attached to a woman just because he inserted his wowo into her meme

However you want to put it, bottom line is that it was an experience he would never like to have again because it did not FEEL good to him.

Originally Posted by leopardo

How did frag and sanaa know? Did they google or they have been tasting the 20s and 40s old tools.

Its rather obvious from observation.The only people who cannot see it are those who are living THE life.Nyani haoni...... (jijazie)

[Whisperingmist]

All you people are soo stupid especially the men. baba kanush was the name used by poko-hunter in his dump stories. so get your own name and stop stealing from other people. However, you all are men. i hope your penis gets cut off accidentaly.

[jogich]

Originally Posted by leopardo

How did frag and sanaa know? Did they google or they have been tasting the 20s and 40s old tools.

I have no idea mybe they had tried with a kamzee smwhere who kitambo used to be a kadinya..we will never get to find out.