I just wonna say something I don't know if it happens always but my first experience when I came to the states was real suprising and shocking the welcome you get from the Kenyans ( if you are a new girl in town the teenies behave like hungry tigers giving you fake lines you feel like screaming as you can see through them and boy you wonder you just wish you were back home where I think real trustworthy teenies are and the chicks I was real suprised some were real hostile and cold. Later I realized they think you are after their teenies and see you as a threat. this is just a posting to say that teenies don't see each and every chick new from home and be ready to take advantage of and chicks please dont see a pretty face and feel threatned (looks are nothing each and every person is beautiful in their own way so ati unaona another babe coz she is beatiful outside and decide just be cold to her because she may catch your boyfriend eye that is so unfair and hurtful gosh (don't see a pretty chick and some of us have serious teenies maybe back home or are not really interested in your teenies and also have some moral values. There is no need for a cold shoulder and an accusatory face it is really lonely when you come from home and you are interested in making new chick friends but end up getting cold shoulder. My question is are the fewer Kenyan teenies around than chicks in the states and what do kenyans turn out to be when they come to the states it is real sad.
don't be surprised kenyan guys here have brought their player instincts from Kenya. most of them r just in relationships for the sake OR for sex (don't be a statistic). most r not serious at all. watch out for many r wolves in sheeps clothing.
and as for the chiles who gave u a cold shoulder usijali those r chiles in very unstable and insecure relationships! most chiles i know in serious relationships don't act like that. take ur time and u will find some good friends - both male and female.
don't forget "just becoz peeps r kenyans does not mean they should be ur buddies" take time and choose wisely.
otherwise wellcome to the USA. lifes not easy but we survive.
I GUESS I KNOW WHAT YOU TALKIN ABOUT, BUT THIS IS AMERICA GAL, YOU GOTTA MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND CARE LESS FOR THOSE WHO BUGGIN'. FOR THE ONES SHOWING YOU A COLD SHOULDER, WELL, IF AT ALL YOU AINT DEPENDING ON THEM ON ANYTHING, THEN WHY BOTHER, RAISE YOUR STAKES AND FORGET 'EM, THATS WHAT IT IS, PEACE OUT !
i think that happens to all the chics who touch states..at least i know most of my pals say the same thing..these kenyan men always pounce on the new chic in town--its standard behavior and its also standard to find the chics who have been in the area long being hostile towards you..it happened to me when i got here..most girls were vibing trash about me coz there jamaas were all pouncing on me but you know what, as long as you freeze these men thats all you need to do..women will always hate on you when competition arises and you should never concern yourself with what people say about you coz clearly they dont jua you so how can someone who has no clue about you know what the hell they are saying..and thats how you survive in the states..ignoring the ##### people say coz they are CLUELESS!!
you just take your time and don't be too quick to make friends and give out your phone number-unless you want to start recieving calls at 3 am from some drunk 'friend' asking what you were doing.that can be very annoying.
YOU SHOULD'NT BE SUPRISED MOST GUYS TALK TO THE NEW CHIC,JUST TO GET SOME NOOKIE AFTER THAT YOU MOVE ON ITS THE SAME MENTALITY FOLKS HERE ATTACH TO CARS...ALWAYS WANTING THE NEWER MODEL...CHICS DO IT TOO..ITS A DISGRACE BUT THE DYNAMICS OF THIS BEHAVIOUR ARE DRIVEN BY NEED , CIRCUMSTANCES ETC..ITS A BONAFIDE CAPITALIST VENTURE...SUPPLY = DEMAND...
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02-25-2002, 02:44 PM
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