[xplaya8]

He's 4 real but R U??

UR own statements incriminate U!

He goes along with what U want and yet U seem dissappointed and clam that y'all broke up....
He remains close and available but 'coz he's respecting UR ..yes YOUR!!!!...xpressed preference,he gives U time and distance

,,and now U! want "2 move on"??????

nini hii!!!

Leave this guy alone and stop trying 2 play UR mind games on him!!! U don't deserve him!!...or any other "4 real" man until U learn 2 B honest and upfront in UR relationships!!!

As some1 had asked B4,who old R U N'yway??

[PaperChaser]

Real men never give up. They will keep you close at heart to the bitter/sweet end.

Your little brat sounds a good man, but u need to investigate him further. Find out about his past relationships, how they ended.If possible find out the reasons he ended those relationships. Coz kuna wajinga wengi out there, who hide their past by being very nice, and yet they are m-devils.

A m-devils can be defined as men who abuse women!!!

[masaa_always]

<<i told him i was not ready to sleep with him.>>

Those are His expectations. The question is: WHAT ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS FROM HIM

<<He calls me regularly just to say hi. He never even pushes me to have sex with him. There is a day he told me that he thinks alot about me while we were having our usual chat. He aslo told me not to take for granted whatever we have between us. So, do you think this guy is for real..coz i wonna move on>>

Simple. If you like this guy, my best advise would be to watch him like a hawk, dig more about yourself and him and be very careful especially in this AIDS scourge.

Love sometimes takes time to grow and is built on things like trust,etc

[kivilo]

Why does sex sound like it is only men who enjoy it?

I think many of the ladies are missing on alot becoz of foolishness

[ndume1]

Sarin and xplaya8 have said it like it needs to be said. Dont lower your standards and convictions for the stupid reason of getting to know if this man is real.
Personally I think this guy has a lot to offer without sex being the issue and if you can focus on that you may live to learn something.

By the way men will always be men. Always looking to get some. if it is offered nani hata pitia?

[pam34]

Thank you all for your replies. Sarin.Thanks.

[down for christ]

H.G hey gal if youwant to know if this guy is for real go to prayer but the fact that he want to have sex or even ts in his thought is wrong and ask God what hes will for your life is coz gal he may say it okey now but when you hook up and become very close he may suggest sex and sinse you are madly inlove you won't say no coz youdon wanna loose him gal consolt God he will reveal to you but his actions also can reveal if his for real and if he is not born again that is even worse am assuming you are born again but this would be my advice ama what do you think

[Sexy Honey]

>girl how old are you again?
>and to answer your question...you only
>know that a guy is real if he asks you
>to marry him. Everything else is
>upuzi...
Mercedesk, where do u live again?
If i was coming after you, would you run to me, or run and never look back? - Oh well we are all sexy, its just the intensity that differs!!!

[down for christ]

playa your name says it all and your advice guy you are gone you betta get to know the thruth coz am even scared for you the direction you are heading scares me hey need to talk am around just mail but this is with love you need a change and i know someone who can giv you a complete turn over holla back and find out

[trexler]

I think the guy is probably getting some elsewhere it would be best for you to show him he's got competition