[nyira]

Just like others have said,age is important.even if you have finished your school and secured a job,you need to take your time,so that soon or later you don't regret.In most cases gals blind themselves that they can do the school as soon as they get married,which is seldom the case.before you even realise the baby will be there,and hence a family to care for and bring up.who will you blame for becoming a domesticated woman?

Marriage is a big topic.

[nat89]

Babe marriage means different things to different people.
Right now, to me it means getting stuck with someone for the rest of your life. That sounds like shyyt. Cause i know i wont want a divorce once i get hitched.

There is no right age for married, when you are ready you are ready. Even though down the line it may go sour you were still ready at some point.
School and marriage, i dont think thats such a big problem, as MUK said it would be better when done with it but really it honestly wont matter if the partners are serious about being together and growing together.
As long as htere is love im sure you can make it work out.
About the cash, dont share your money. Or atleast open an account where you both put some money in but keep one account only for yourself.

If you feel you are ready and you got love i wuold say go for it. Do what your heart tells you to do. Cause you know these things come and go and regret is somehting that wear someone down.

You know what f*** all that i wrote up there, money shouldnt matter, neither should school or anything else. Just as long as u have love. Take you chance, dont let it slide.

I need to tell you something. It might give u an answer.

[KEMINOKANA]

On a serious note, I've long associated with people who write like waithera whatever to be immature. Please start preparing for marriage by writing properly. This teenage writing should end as soon as you step into a college.

[grip_daddy]

Get married when you think you want to give/get some sex...biblically speaking that is.

[Waithera Cherono Akoth]

Originally Posted by grip_daddy

Get married when you think you want to give/get some sex...biblically speaking that is.

so u get married for sex...,u crazy..,lol!!

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

On a serious note, I've long associated with people who write like waithera whatever to be immature. Please start preparing for marriage by writing properly. This teenage writing should end as soon as you step into a college.

GEEEEZZZZZ!!!!!! OK FINE...,al try to improve tho i don find
any corelation btw writing and maturity!!!!!!

Originally Posted by nat89

Babe marriage means different things to different people.
Right now, to me it means getting stuck with someone for the rest of your life.
I need to tell you something. It might give u an answer.

HA HA HA
wait until u find the right person.., u wont think its getting stuk!!
yahh wel talk!!

[Waithera Cherono Akoth]

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

You can read books upon books. Watch videos upon videos. Go counseling after counseling. But until you are in it, you will never understand marriage. Even when you are in it, you still wont. .

good job.., I thot so too!!!!

[barb]

Originally Posted by Waithera Cherono Akoth

good job.., I thot so too!!!!

wca, i agree with Kemi too, (which btw is quite shocking coz most of the time i think he is a big baby) but here is what you two are missing, books, videos and counselling do not help you understand marriage, BUT, they give you a slight idea of what its all abt, and this information is coming from pple who are qualified to offer that adv, pple who have spent yrs and yrs studying the do and the dont's of marriage, shoo i dont even think they completely understand marriage themselves but you'll atleast have that skeletal, nut shell of information and believe me, i would personally use every piece of information abt marriage coz marriage aint easy and am scared of that kind of commitment like you would never imagine.

[Waithera Cherono Akoth]

ur right barb..., it gives an idea of what ur gettin into....,
actualy rite nw i was jus reading about the kind of problems
people face in relationships and how to handle them...,
he he am hooked for a second....,
ebu google ' relationship problems'....,he he
thats wea am at!!!

[grip_daddy]

Originally Posted by Waithera Cherono Akoth

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so u get married for sex...,u crazy..,lol!!

That's the only thing that has a single source (marriage) according to the bible. All the other things can be got from any other place (relationship).

[YB*]

I will have to ask a question first before responding.

Before when, can you please tell us 'why you want to get married?'

Answer this and your 'when' is taken care of.

I also don't agree with the fear of change or lack thereof, its true there is a difference between what you are now and what you were 3 years ago, but if you're married to your equal, keep in mind the person will change with you.

But one thing's for sure, do not get married before you have a direction in your life, you must not necessarily be moving in that direction at the time, but you should have an idea of where you are going or want to go. Then hook up with someone going in the same direction.