[Type R]

nat,

Maybe the boyfi has heard of a stud, and he wants to unleash him on his babe. They've gone thru all the health checks, and now he wants to be shown what to do to please his dissatisfied woman. Especially if the gal has shown herself as irredeemably frigid, then someone sez, "i know the cure for dat" and then it's "I betcha $$$$ that you can never get emotion out of my porcelain ornament" and the reply "try me!!!!"

[KEMINOKANA]

Originally Posted by YB*

Hi Nat

Truth of the matter is, people evolve and societies are evolving.

I have said this before and will say it again, i have never equated love to sex, nor sex for love, men know this, but apply a double standard when women are involved, actually take it a notch higher and say where their women are involved.

In mashada you will see guys advocating asking for sex from an involved chic, even married women, citing its just that - sex, yet when you put through such an idea of letting their women enjoy just that, sex, unapata outrageous disgust.

Out there are people with different relationships, from swingers to couples into SM. As we grow older, men tend to slow down sexually, in all ways, from tempo to frequency, while women are just getting comfortable with their sexuality, some men do get pragmatic and deal with the issue the best way they know how, in terms of satisfying their woman that is, their focus is not themselves, their focus is their partner, as long as she is getting pleasure, especially pleasure he cant give, but she stills loves him, thats all that matters to him and her.

A nice man, meets a good woman, loving, caring the works, but the guy has a weenie for a package. And she has a desire for a water pipe. So how is this played out? Take her to church aombewe? leave her coz you dont have the pipe (the need for the big stuff is not on a daily dose)? What happens??

And of course the issue of porn, once you change your focus of pleasure then expect it to look deviant to others, guys who go anal change the focus of the ultimate pleasure, and no matter how they try other ways, you must scratch where it itches.

Watching porn and wanking to it can bring this on, where your ultimate pleasure is watching women getting f.ucked, your satisfaction focus is changed, and no matter how much the man screws the woman, he is still not taking care of the itch.

At the end of the day, are you comfortable with it? and also what does that translate to in you relationship, how will it define you? Right now it sounds as unreal as what sex before marriage was in the '70's.

Am almost certain, when the issue of 'tossing the salad' became mainstream, this was probably the knee jerk reaction from men, just take the dailies and surf the net, this service in the sex industry is growing in a big proportion, men hired to satisfy the wife.

After you are done analyzing us, can you tell us if you will or have had another man do the job for you? Yes or no and why.

Okidough, show me one man who had satisfying sex and still cheated and I have a bridge in alaska to sell you.

[YB*]

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

After you are done analyzing us, can you tell us if you will or have had another man do the job for you? Yes or no and why.

Okidough, show me one man who had satisfying sex and still cheated and I have a bridge in alaska to sell you.

Am not there yet - as in need someone else to finish or do the job for me, but i thought about it before posting. Would I condemn my partner because of my shortcomings, assuming its an accident and my appendage is truncated, would I ask her to be the 'good woman' to miss out in silence.

To be the indian woman who throws herself at the fire when husband dies. As it is right now, chances are I would, depending on circumstance, but the real test comes at the time of doing the do.