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07-02-2008, 02:22 AM
The will power.
Ever struggled with addiction? Drugs (alcohol, cigar, etc), habits, routines, and thoughts that you can't do without.
Have you ever overcome any bad habits? Have you managed to move on without effort?
I have a friend who stopped smoking bang, cigar and using other hard substances just like that. He just decided to stop, and he did it. Like wanting all day to go and watch the world cup finals then you just decide not to, and you don't.
Well, think about yourself. Are you easily influenced? Do you find yourself not able to withstand the pressure that comes with saying NO?
Then, cultivate your will power. You may suffer physically, and/or psychologically for some time, but this I promise you, you'll live to love yourself.
The difference between a fool and a wise man is that a wise man is both but a fool is just a fool
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07-02-2008, 02:25 AM
If you moved on from your mama place,definately you can move on in any challenge
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07-02-2008, 03:42 AM
am addicted to mashada and i have tried everything anything even church prayers by a well known evangelist (now an mp) but i can't stop it.nifanye?
GOD IS A DJ
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07-02-2008, 03:49 AM
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am addicted to mashada and i have tried everything anything even church prayers by a well known evangelist (now an mp) but i can't stop it.nifanye?
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Just quit mashada. Say no once and bear that pain for some time only.
Have you overcame any past addictions?
The difference between a fool and a wise man is that a wise man is both but a fool is just a fool
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07-02-2008, 04:00 AM
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Originally Posted by grip_daddy
Just quit mashada. Say no once and bear that pain for some time only.
Have you overcame any past addictions?
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i overcame clubbing and mama pima addiction. am all clean,siku hizi ni alvaro tu!!
i don't think i can quit mashada,it's very very hard.
GOD IS A DJ
LIFE IS A DANCEFLOOR
LOVE IS THE RHYTHM
YOU ARE THE MUSIC
If i'm not here try Chizika or Vybes

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07-02-2008, 05:49 AM
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i overcame clubbing and mama pima addiction. am all clean,siku hizi ni alvaro tu!!
i don't think i can quit mashada,it's very very hard.
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Pray n fast for 3 days.... 
Ndio mwanzo mkoko waalika maua 
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07-02-2008, 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted by grip_daddy
The will power.
Ever struggled with addiction? Drugs (alcohol, cigar, etc), habits, routines, and thoughts that you can't do without.
Have you ever overcome any bad habits? Have you managed to move on without effort?
I have a friend who stopped smoking bang, cigar and using other hard substances just like that. He just decided to stop, and he did it. Like wanting all day to go and watch the world cup finals then you just decide not to, and you don't.
Well, think about yourself. Are you easily influenced? Do you find yourself not able to withstand the pressure that comes with saying NO?
Then, cultivate your will power. You may suffer physically, and/or psychologically for some time, but this I promise you, you'll live to love yourself.
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Si i also stopped taking alcohol just like that??? Let me say, there is an addiction i have and i have been trying to stop, lakini wapi!! But am still working on it. And don't y'all start getting any ideas. Its just a bad habit
YOU MAY BE DISAPPOINTED IF YOU FAIL,
BUT YOU ARE DOOMED IF YOU DON'T TRY.
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Kazana -
07-02-2008, 07:39 AM
It all come from the heart since willpower is the best driving force but it is the worst enemy of a fun lover.
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07-02-2008, 08:10 AM
I find that you get the power one the consequence comes through, someone with a disconnect in that capability usually will not stop.
I stop alcohol when i need to get in shape, even if its 12 months, procrastination tends to stop when the consequence could mean joblessness or non graduation.
I guess what am saying is, the is a motivation is needed to stop, without it, rather without understanding it, then hakuna.
Just because you've always done it that way, doesn't mean its not incredibly stupid.
“If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten” (Mark Twain)
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07-02-2008, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted by YB*
I find that you get the power one the consequence comes through, someone with a disconnect in that capability usually will not stop.
I stop alcohol when i need to get in shape, even if its 12 months, procrastination tends to stop when the consequence could mean joblessness or non graduation.
I guess what am saying is, the is a motivation is needed to stop, without it, rather without understanding it, then hakuna.
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I think this depends on addiction type. Almost all smokers know and understand most of the consequences but exercising the will power still become problematic.
My dad was thoroughly briefed on the effects his smoking would cause, he tried to quit but sad enough, only death saved him from worse consequences.
The difference between a fool and a wise man is that a wise man is both but a fool is just a fool
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