what makes a man faithful?

[Me.On]

Originally Posted by judo chop

i think upbringing has a lot to do with it. If a child is taught to respect others feelings and to be honest, he/she will be more unlikely to cheat.

What?

Cheating is about the "green-ness" of the grass on the other side of the fence.

The remedy lies in recognizing that "green" is "green"— whatever side of the fence it grows on.

And that it takes "glooming," for the "green" "grass" to flourish.

Tend the grass, on the 18th hole (golf.)

And "putting" becomes

A No-Brainer!!

So would be the embrace,

After the ball drop

Can I hit a hole-in-one?

[Ghetto Love]

Originally Posted by Sugaspice

'Faithful man'? that's a redundant phrase.

The thing is..We aint many..You can count us faithfull men.

[mineboy]

The question should probably have been, what makes a man unfithful. I tell you my case of why i cheat at times. despite being hapilly married and faithful to her for some three years, i believe she got spoiled by her lady friends on how men 'go out and come back'. I once overheard a discussion of her the women friends but then it was just on a neutral ground, so i ingonered. a year latter, she started practically policing me. this culminated in a botched up confrontation based on the misinterpretations of the messages I had on phone. i felt so hurted as i knew i was very innocent. as she continued with her policing, i broke the chains and decided to screw somebody else in revenge. I was tuning my work mate and before i had laid her, an opportunity arose for me to nail a house maid, ironically of my wifes fellow gossiper. as this affair progressed, i enticed her and she got to tell me how her boss' marieage is being rocked up since she was caught cheating on the hubby. It dawned on me that she spoiled my wife's mind after she felt insecure.
Thats just one way of answering the question, among hundreds.

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by al-zalzalah

Lol. Frags, si kwa ubaya, lakini you sound like Beyonce right here. Singing songs about "Independence" and all, that time she's headed down the aisle with her mano.

Lol, people are becoming evil before our very eyes. At this rate, all the single folks should just join the convents and monasteries and dedicate their celibate lives to serving Christ. The relationship scene has too many boobytraps.

LOL that’s the best part of it all for me. No matter what I say or how people take it, mimi niko set!

MUK men you are evil! Am scared of you now…......if I were single I might have just headed to the nearest convent!!!!Right quick at that! LOL

KEMI what did you call me? LOL relax your makende!

[YB*]

Women are the kings of generalisation, I think men should ask for fine print. What do you mean 'Faithful'??

Dog Faithful?? - Always by your side, hanging on your every word, executing your every command, keeping unwanteds at bay etc?? That sounds good, right?

But even the dog will run with his dogs when and where necessary.

I will not get into a long post coz no woman will / has ever understood how a man views sex, relationships, marriage and love.

And thats why that beloved brother of yours young lady, will attend a stag night with your soon to be husband and will never fault him to you, even if you are twins.....

[Pothole]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

The excerpt says that a man who doesn’t have courage or loyalty should be given space/time to develop it.

Fine but how do you achieve this when its already too late. I mean, truth be told Mr perfect will be Mr perfect until you are either already too deep in love to just walk away or too deep in marriage.

Ladies, I suggest you test him. Yes, test him. Put him through sh.it while your relationship is still new. I mean be a freaking nag, starve him sexually till his balls literally turn blue…..no purple…no make that blue blackish navy blue, ignore him and just be a bit.ch. Grow a pair of fre.aking horns if you have to…..am make em red while you are at it.

If he still remains loyal, that’s a good man right there. Marry that sammama and treat him like he deserves.

If he fails this test, its time to scamper before you are in it too deep.

(I can read some of ya’lls thoughts already. You are thinking why put a good man through this in the 1st place. Why try to fix it if it aint broke? Well, its either you find out his true colours now or marry his representative only to meet the real him when its too late.)

Which man will allow to be starved of sex when there are so many options? he may continue pursuing you but believe me he would not be starving.

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by Pothole

Which man will allow to be starved of sex when there are so many options? he may continue pursuing you but believe me he would not be starving.

Is that a rhetorical question ama you are actually expecting an answer?

[karens]

Originally Posted by sex

I second the point.......its all about you not another person perfecting you.

Hmm??
"Only a man can keep a man faithful, not a woman and her ways."

ebu fafanua??

[Titty Boy]

give a man what he wants i.e:
1.pumpum
2.don't nag
3.time with the boys

and he will never stray. He will return home every evening like a faithful dog from the hunting fields. Violate ANY of the above at your own risk