what makes a man faithful?

[Fraglante]

The excerpt says that a man who doesn’t have courage or loyalty should be given space/time to develop it.

Fine but how do you achieve this when its already too late. I mean, truth be told Mr perfect will be Mr perfect until you are either already too deep in love to just walk away or too deep in marriage.

Ladies, I suggest you test him. Yes, test him. Put him through sh.it while your relationship is still new. I mean be a freaking nag, starve him sexually till his balls literally turn blue…..no purple…no make that blue blackish navy blue, ignore him and just be a bit.ch. Grow a pair of fre.aking horns if you have to…..am make em red while you are at it.

If he still remains loyal, that’s a good man right there. Marry that sammama and treat him like he deserves.

If he fails this test, its time to scamper before you are in it too deep.

(I can read some of ya’lls thoughts already. You are thinking why put a good man through this in the 1st place. Why try to fix it if it aint broke? Well, its either you find out his true colours now or marry his representative only to meet the real him when its too late.)

[charlokam]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

The excerpt says that a man who doesn’t have courage or loyalty should be given space/time to develop it.

Fine but how do you achieve this when its already too late. I mean, truth be told Mr perfect will be Mr perfect until you are either already too deep in love to just walk away or too deep in marriage.

Ladies, I suggest you test him. Yes, test him. Put him through sh.it while your relationship is still new. I mean be a freaking nag, starve him sexually till his balls literally turn blue…..no purple…no make that blue blackish navy blue, ignore him and just be a bit.ch. Grow a pair of fre.aking horns if you have to…..am make em red while you are at it.

If he still remains loyal, that’s a good man right there. Marry that sammama and treat him like he deserves.

If he fails this test, its time to scamper before you are in it too deep.

(I can read some of ya’lls thoughts already. You are thinking why put a good man through this in the 1st place. Why try to fix it if it aint broke? Well, its either you find out his true colours now or marry his representative only to meet the real him when its too late.)

Sweetie when a relationship is still new. he does not give a **** about you. He is just test driving you. So as you test him guess what he is also testing you and he will dump you behind so fast you will not know what happened

[KEMINOKANA]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

The excerpt says that a man who doesn’t have courage or loyalty should be given space/time to develop it.

Fine but how do you achieve this when its already too late. I mean, truth be told Mr perfect will be Mr perfect until you are either already too deep in love to just walk away or too deep in marriage.

Ladies, I suggest you test him. Yes, test him. Put him through sh.it while your relationship is still new. I mean be a freaking nag, starve him sexually till his balls literally turn blue…..no purple…no make that blue blackish navy blue, ignore him and just be a bit.ch. Grow a pair of fre.aking horns if you have to…..am make em red while you are at it.

If he still remains loyal, that’s a good man right there. Marry that sammama and treat him like he deserves.

If he fails this test, its time to scamper before you are in it too deep.

(I can read some of ya’lls thoughts already. You are thinking why put a good man through this in the 1st place. Why try to fix it if it aint broke? Well, its either you find out his true colours now or marry his representative only to meet the real him when its too late.)

Isn't this what Jogich was saying in the other thread and yall were protesting?

[KEMINOKANA]

Originally Posted by charlokam

Sweetie when a relationship is still new. he does not give a **** about you. He is just test driving you. So as you test him guess what he is also testing you and he will dump you behind so fast you will not know what happened

Most people don't realize that dating is in essence test-driving. So all that acting *****'y will not be interpreted as a test but as personality (and most likely, you will resort to that behavior even in marriage when things don't go your way).

[Waithera Cherono Akoth]

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

The bible says that "he who FINDS a GOOD WIFE" finds something greater than gold or silver....or something like that.

Men cheat because there are so many bad women compared to good women. Thus the biblical verse.

so ur blaming it on finding the wrong women?????

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

Isn't this what Jogich was saying in the other thread and yall were protesting?

No no no….Jogich’s way was all tainted and dirty (no offence). He was not testing the girl he was keeping the relationship spicy and interesting. As in this was the whole deal. For as long as the relationship was to last, that’s how it was going to be.

Mine is a pure clean test. We are waiting to see the results before making a life commitment. Not and ongoing pursuit of excitement.

[KEMINOKANA]

Originally Posted by Waithera Cherono Akoth

so ur blaming it on finding the wrong women?????

Precisely. I always knew you are a smart chic.

[charlokam]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

No no no….Jogich’s way was all tainted and dirty (no offence). He was not testing the girl he was keeping the relationship spicy and interesting. As in this was the whole deal. For as long as the relationship was to last, that’s how it was going to be.

Mine is a pure clean test. We are waiting to see the results before making a life commitment. Not and ongoing pursuit of excitement.

I had a girl who once tested me, ati she was pregnant...... for two good weeks, just to see how much I loved her and what would happen if I ever made pregnant....

I passed with flying colors but she failed my test. and I dumped her fat a.s.s so fast and its beeen close to 9 years and she still has hang ups about us

[KEMINOKANA]

Originally Posted by Fraglante

No no no….Jogich’s way was all tainted and dirty (no offence). He was not testing the girl he was keeping the relationship spicy and interesting. As in this was the whole deal. For as long as the relationship was to last, that’s how it was going to be.

Mine is a pure clean test. We are waiting to see the results before making a life commitment. Not and ongoing pursuit of excitement.

Fair enough. Good luck with the test drive. I bet he didn't/wont squirm -or get blue balls for that matter-because someone else is milking him like a brand new General Electric pump.

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by charlokam

Sweetie when a relationship is still new. he does not give a **** about you. He is just test driving you. So as you test him guess what he is also testing you and he will dump you behind so fast you will not know what happened

Bingo there are the results!

If he cant stick by her through a simple test what would make her think he can stick by her through the real tests of marriage/life? Her PMS? The real deal?

If he cant take the heat in the kitchen when the relationship is new ie when the chemistry is supposed to be the driving force that will drive them through anything, how about when the chemistry is gone?

Good riddance. Next brave man please...