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Old 3rd November 2009, 06:27 PM
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Default Lol, a kenyan beaten by his wife. daaammn    Show Printable Version  Print   Email this Page  Email  

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This is terrible, how can this happen??
i thought the man is the Jogoo(cockerel) and when he crows, the women scatter!!!
wah wah wah...
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Old 3rd November 2009, 06:36 PM
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Default An alcoholic ,irresponsible man??


This guy thinks that he can get attention and pity from you tube viewers. He is described as an alcoholic,not wanting to work and is not even a breadwinner.Whoever made this video is not aware of the real motive behind this irresponsible man ,crying for attention and the the role of victim!!He is behaving like his wife is his mother and wants to be re-parented by his hardworking wife and mother of his kids & to make him a responsible Father of his kids.
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This guy thinks that he can get attention and pity from you tube viewers. He is described as an alcoholic,not wanting to work and is not even a breadwinner.Whoever made this video is not aware of the real motive behind this irresponsible man ,crying for attention and the the role of victim!!He is behaving like his wife is his mother and wants to be re-parented by his hardworking wife and mother of his kids & to make him a responsible Father of his kids.
It sure sounds like he's irresponsible but beating him up is wrong. If we ask men not to abuse women, we must take the same stand against women who do it. She should leave him instead of beating him up. What if he dies? I feel for her children who have to witness this and may think it's ok.eish! I hope the man gathers some strength to walk away from the abuse and also get his life on track for his kids' sake.
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It sure sounds like he's irresponsible but beating him up is wrong. If we ask men not to abuse women, we must take the same stand against women who do it. She should leave him instead of beating him up. What if he dies? I feel for her children who have to witness this and may think it's ok.eish! I hope the man gathers some strength to walk away from the abuse and also get his life on track for his kids' sake.
He should leave her not the other way around!!! In abuse it is about Power and control.Abused women are not alcoholics or irresponsible.The man chooses to be abusive for no reason to the woman to gain Power and control.In this video scenario ,the man is the abusive one because he comes to the woman as an irresponsible man and to cover up for his irresponsible behaviour he plays victim by gas lighting his wife to anger and violence.He plays victim by looking for sympathy for his irresponsible behaviour.You need to see the abuse from this mans behaviour-it is another form of abuse to women!!
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He should leave her not the other way around!!! In abuse it is about Power and control.Abused women are not alcoholics or irresponsible.The man chooses to be abusive for no reason to the woman to gain Power and control.In this video scenario ,the man is the abusive one because he comes to the woman as an irresponsible man and to cover up for his irresponsible behaviour he plays victim by gas lighting his wife to anger and violence.He plays victim by looking for sympathy for his irresponsible behaviour.You need to see the abuse from this mans behaviour-it is another form of abuse to women!!
Your argument is setting a dangerous precedent. It's sounds like you actually think some behavior justify abuse. People from all works of life can be abuse victims. e.g Rihanna. If we are against domestic violence, we need to hold both men and women to the same standards. No matter what this man has done, she has no right to beat him up. She can be the bigger person and keep her children from witnessing such behavior.

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Alcohol and marriage and finances dont go together.A man needs to be responsible enough not to drink,get a job and support his children.What behaviour is this irresponsible man portraying to his children??He should be so ashamed of himself even to appear on camera but he thinks He is a you Tube STAR-[B]Daddy of the [/B]YEAR!!!!
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he should drink responsibly agree to work and carry out the other marital duties to satisfaction then hata pigwa
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He should leave her not the other way around!!! In abuse it is about Power and control.Abused women are not alcoholics or irresponsible.The man chooses to be abusive for no reason to the woman to gain Power and control.In this video scenario ,the man is the abusive one because he comes to the woman as an irresponsible man and to cover up for his irresponsible behaviour he plays victim by gas lighting his wife to anger and violence.He plays victim by looking for sympathy for his irresponsible behaviour.You need to see the abuse from this mans behaviour-it is another form of abuse to women!!
IN other words, alcoholic or irresponsible women are ok to beat up? And since irresponsibility is subjective, i.e what I consider irresponsible can be considered responsible by someone else, who/where do you then draw the boundary? In short, you are an utter idiot.
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