[kwangu]

Well spoken @sbg, some people consider it having a meal with the enemy especially guys who know what happened during the colonial days...

K

[kim007]

>You are right pipitp. Everyone is
>entitled to their own thoughts on the
>subject. I apologize for unleashing the
>grieve on you.
>
>@adoortobang….
>What’s wrong with being bi-sexual?
>Some people just have wide tastes..
>there is nothing wrong with someone both
>liking chapos and hotdogs.
>@musithe…it’s called
>“carpet munching” not
>“eating cardboard”


This is insane, Where in tha name of kny do you come from? What kind of ideas are those that you have in ya mind? Where we come from, that is nonsense, if you cant get someone to give it to you that good or to fu.. you that good go back to tha home land and get some coz you never came here to fuuuck a fellow woman or man, you better not forget that you are not akatas but kny's who have a long history of not having anything to do Whatever form of Bisexuality you are trying to defend.
If you marry a person of another race, i am bila complains coz no one is entitled or restricted to marry any kind of race or colour so long as you wanna do it and fall in Love whatever people might say, but must be of tha opposite sex not that ##### you are vibin'. Not even ya Mama or Dad can be happy to hear that his son/Daughter married a guy or lady of tha same sex, they will disown you tha same dayn or go crazy wherever they are and start runnin' wild in tha villages.

[hieroglyphics]

Learn the difference between the two. You guys are talking about interracial relationships. "Biracial relationships?" the word doesnt make much sense. Biracial means someone who is a pointy. so if you add relationship to that word then its not what you guys are talking about.

[falsie]

@Piptip: I can comment but I don't want to offend people - I'm kind of an outsider looking in on this site.

It's kind of hard reading this as a white girl who had a pretty serious relationship with a kenyan guy. I know he copped a lot of flack from people for dating me and they applied the stereotypes that have come up in this discussion. People expected me to be fat (they were wrong), they expected me to have no hips (they were wrong), they expected me to have no arse (they were wrong), they expected me to be ugly (I'd like to say they were wrong, but I guess that's kinda subjective...), they expected me to think I was in some way better than him (they were wrong) and they expected me to be culturally insensitive - and were totally shocked when I came to Kenya and was able to fit in really well, with complete respect for his culture, family and friends. I loved Kenya and could have spent the rest of my life there. And I'm not talking about the Nairobi Hilton or anything like that.

One of the hardest things for him was that he didn't have as much money as I did - it didn't worry me in the slightest and I was happy to do whatever I could for him, but I suppose I have to respect that he needed to feel like the "provider".

Another thing to say is that there's so much bashing of kenyan women on this site - the stereotypes of white women are hard to take, but what's supposed to be gained from talking about kenyan women as troublemaking golddiggers who don't give head? I hate to break it to you, but there are gold-digging white women and there are financially independent, intelligent african women as well (i've certainly met some). And not all white girls are trailer trash sluts. Why can't we all respect each other and leave out the racial stereotypes?

For those of you who hate me by the end of this post, I apologise in advance. I'm sorry if I have offended anyone by commenting as an outsider. I really don't mean to piss anyone off. Before you tell me I deserve everything I get, just keep in mind that you don't know me and I'm actually a really nice person.

[lindsay0301]

I am in a bi racial relationship. I am a white woman dating a black man. we were first friends through a few friends of ours and found our selves falling for each other. We are madly in love. We don't ignore our differences, these differences make us unique and in every way possible we celebrate them. And like most relationships we even make fun of eachother for them. Just as he makes fun of my messy car, he makes fun of my flat butt (although he says he likes it). If he were white, i would love him the same, if i were black he would love me. I didn't start a relationship with him because i was looking for something to turn heads. I love him for who he is. He has taught me a lot about what it's like to be black in america, although I understand I will probably never fully get it. He is the only man i have ever been with that fully understands me and loves me for who I am. I think it's even more beautiful we can do that on so many sociological barriers. It's not all fun and games. His grandparents don't really approve. Our parents are really supportive, but it hurts when he goes to see his grandparents and I know I'm not welcome. My family is really supportive. Still it scares me to know that someday I will have to raise a half black child. Not because I think it will be more different than raising a white child, but because I am not sure I can give them all the knowlage they need to survive in a cruel world where people don't understand and don't want to. I think you all are missing the point of bi-racial relationships. We are all people. If any person basis a relationship on the outside apperences or social standing it's going to fall apart. When you truely see what's on the inside and love someone for that-it can work. No matter what your color. I love my boyfriend and know that these past two years will soon turn into a life time of learning, but most importantly a lifetime of loving someone for who they are and knowing I am truely being loved in return.

[Jibril Cessay]

Is dating a chick/jamaa from another tribe also considered bi-racial?