Unsigned hype i am sorry to break the news to you but my boy its so so so over. The only thing she doesn't know how to is tell you to your face. So let me do some translation and sorry for being cold.....
- i need some time alone.......... this means i cant stand being with you. You suffocate me and i dont want to be anywhere near you
- not picking up your calls or replying your sms This is what she says when you call. Arghhh can't this negro get a hint. I am so done with him
- forgetting dates..... its not forgetting its called ignoring and being stood up. She better watch paint dry than take a mat and come to be with you
- lets go slow on sex..... i will bet you have not tasted those goods since you came back from the project. Ati her dad giving her a sex talk, lol........ All she is telling you is that you will never ever ever tap those things ever again
- you ask her if you are allowed to move on and she tells you she cant tell you that, then the crutch is ati she would feel bad if you were with another chic.......... Translation is she does not give a hoot about what you do as long as you live her alone.. The last statement is called pity talk... Just a step away from telling you. Go fwack yourself for all i care
Now I know love is not a switch that can just be turned off if things don't work. For me what I would advise you is save what is left of you and that is pride.... Just call her and tell her that you have decided not only to give her sometime but after some thought you have decided actually that you are done with her..... Trust me its still gonna hurt as much.
Then start working on your life...... You short term project that was keeping you busy is done.... So start major hustling to get another project and if not even just volunteer for stuff. Key word is keep yourself busy coz that is the major cure of heartbreak for a man....and after like 3 months start looking around and just do some light dating.
Good luck my boy and pole for breaking it down to you like that.... No need to torture you with over analysis
And that was Dr MUK love advise