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Old 3rd November 2009, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted by okiedokes View Post
It sure sounds like he's irresponsible but beating him up is wrong. If we ask men not to abuse women, we must take the same stand against women who do it. She should leave him instead of beating him up. What if he dies? I feel for her children who have to witness this and may think it's ok.eish! I hope the man gathers some strength to walk away from the abuse and also get his life on track for his kids' sake.
He should leave her not the other way around!!! In abuse it is about Power and control.Abused women are not alcoholics or irresponsible.The man chooses to be abusive for no reason to the woman to gain Power and control.In this video scenario ,the man is the abusive one because he comes to the woman as an irresponsible man and to cover up for his irresponsible behaviour he plays victim by gas lighting his wife to anger and violence.He plays victim by looking for sympathy for his irresponsible behaviour.You need to see the abuse from this mans behaviour-it is another form of abuse to women!!
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