[Realistik Dreamer]

I think the issue here is family values. Do we still respect/need them?

Family (i.e Father, Mother, Children & extended family are the basis of civilization)

Africans are buying into the career first/money first (rich b4 kids come?) fantasy promoted by media.

This selfish avoidance of (family) responsibility leads to cheap (no meaningful relationship) sexual adventurism.

As one waits for the right person and the right amount of wealth

Which is quite a mystery to me because I thought (as our ancestors did) that marriage is about building together.

No wonder Africans are soon going to be going the pre-nuptial way of hollywood.......

In this white & black confusions: one-night stands (or such like "recreational sex" )prove you are beautiful/cool, marriage is a bore to postpone etc we are finding African men & women well into their 30s & even 40s......still waiting-and "sleeping" their lives away.

There is very little evidence that these long career/money makers and one-night standers become MORE ORGANIZED than those who marry in their 20s (ideal age if possible) who by now have children almost touching the their teens.....

Life is tricky. Dont let the media set up a fantasy in your mind.

When it comes to sex, we are taught (by the media) to believe it is our free right to muck about to prove that we can be happy. Something that two people (BLACK MAN & WOMAN!!) can achieve in a LIFE LONG RELATIONSHIP

You cant let these depraved (profiteers) just let lose your sexual fantasies to DESTROY YOU.

Now thats Pathetic.

FAMILY VALUES AFRICANS!!