Funny you should post this on the exact same week am suffering from thorough ego 'bruisement' due to eerh something similar to your friend.....though from a rejection angle.
Here is my little anecdote(
X rated): Afew days ago, we were in bed and it was one of those days. Yani I was really really in the mood.I knew he had had a long day so I thought 'Am good I can wait for morning' But Noooooooo I just tossed and turned all night.The fact that he was lying right there next to me wasnt helping. His masculine frame and sexy scent and warm skin.....just kept me awake. And hot.
So around 3am I wake up and strip (twas getting too hot anyway). I make sure I move around and fidget alot so he can wake up. He doesnt.So I go back into the sheets.
3.30am, still couldn't sleep so I wake up very noisily and switch on the lights. And begin to kill mosquitos. Very noisily.He doesn't wake up. So I take off the mosquito net and really ruffle his pillows.Then I get back into bed and leave the lights on(100wts).
Finally he wakes up and asks wsup. So I tell him am killing mosquitos
Plus its hot and I need to open all the windows and curtains too and get rid of some blankets and maybe the duvet too.So he spoons me and suggests I go back to sleep.
I figure the subtlety wasnt working so I sed to hell with all his tiredness and long day I want sex and I want it now.I demanded he get off his pjays and **** my brains out.There was a long pause so I repeat my 3.30am demands more forthrightly.I was randy and I wanted. Nataka na ninaitisha if you too tired lie on your back and let me do everything! You feel me?
Shock horror he grunts, turns his back on me and starts to snore!!!!!!! WTF???? Was that a rejection??I have never been sexually rejected ever ever??How dare he?
'Niga I know you are not asleep we were just talking 2 seconds ago???'
I was mad I wunt even lie. Then I was hurt. Felt like my ego had just been ripped out of its ego cage and shredded into bits then thrown into a juicer and juiced then blended in a blender with.......something.Am still trying to recover to date.
But I wasn't going down that easy. I DIYed right there in bed next to him and I made sure he heard me and felt me.I wasn't quiet at all neither was I still. I wunt even lie I was thinking of my ex and how he used to ravish me and grip my hips as he ****ed me from behind. How my flesh would turn red with claw marks around my hips and my ***** sore for days.He definitely left his mark!How he would make me call out his name, how our bodies would merge with nothing but sweat between us.How I would beg him to **** me harder and he would godamn deliver each and every ****ing time!Every ****ing place any time any where.
I let go and had a mind blowing orgasm. Yeah in his face!Threw the sheets off and busked in my post orgasm glow all stretched out and sweaty.... right there next to him.
I knew the message had been delivered loud and clear coz then he turned and asked me if I could go down on him.LOL WTF did the snoring disappear instantaneously?
So I rejected him too. Told him am good and he should have a good night.
Poor dude woke up and went to the balcony.Musta smoked a whole packet of gafs. Now it was my turn to snore. Whole 6" of bed all to my freaky sexually satisfied self.
Next day, we talked about it. Hehehehe
...its funny now that I think about it.We definitely made it up to each other though am still nursing my bruised ego kisirisiri.