One thing you will never hear me complain in these forums or anywhere else for that matter is men or relationships.
After being in a couple of happy and fulfilling relationships, I've come to know what men want and don't want.
And one of those thing men like the most is:
A self-sufficient, secure, confident woman.
Men want a woman to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation -- either materially or emotionally. Men need to be wanted and needed by their partners, but they want their partners to have a separate identity. Men want a woman to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests.
Men hate a manipulating or controlling relationship.
Men will not tolerate manipulation of any kind for any significant length of time. To attract a great man and build a wonderful relationship learn to ask without hesitation for what you want and need in every area of your life.
Those are my two cents but of course there are many other things men want/don't want from a woman in a relationship.
For more discussion, please check this thread:
What Men Want in a Relationship