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Originally Posted by Fraglante
I beg to differ. Any socially well adjusted person, male or female will have some level of emotional attachment with the person they have sex with. I know to men, sex is more automated than it is emotional.
But ask yourself this: why is it that some men vow to become players after heart break? Is it not to protect themselves from the emotional hurt they experienced from the heart break? Which means there were feelings involved.
Why is it that some men get so enraged (even to a point of physical violence) when they learn hat their spouse has cheated on them? Is it not because they feel emotionally violated? Meaning, there was an emotional bond developed by the physical intimacy.
If it was purely mechanical, it would be no big deal.
These men that sleep around and forget the people they slept with are the ones who am talking about- they are promiscuous emotionally handicapped men laden with baggage. So much that they cannot connect emotionally anymore. They **** and forget **** and forget….like robots.
You don’t forget your 1st sexual encounter. Why? Because then you were fresh, your heart was intact…you had no emotional baggage.
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Well you are viewin from a totally diff level..chali/manzi relationshp..and yeah you are right many players were once hurt..I was once hurt bt i don't call myself a player...A guy can have sex with a chic and its just sex na hiyo story inaisha...n thats where most gals go wrong..just cos we had sex doesnt mean i wanted a relationshp...gals shld learn to diff btn the two.