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Originally Posted by msema ukweli Kabisa
Ester yaani you and you boyfie dont do it? ngai fafa do they still make such people bado? lol
And to Frag as long as you believe we are incapable of being faithful, we will gladly work hard to prove your point, lol
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The idea that a perfect gentleman would go out of his way to cheat and play around in order to prove a point is funny. I mean you don’t want to cheat but you do it because I said its typical?
Hehehe….hilarious.
Anyway this is not something one goes telling their partner. Not at all. Its something you know and just keep to yourself. Its for the woman’s own good so that she can protect herself incase of any eventuality. Sort of like a buffer between the cruel or dumb actions of her philandering husband and her fragile heart. A shock absorber if I may call it that. Blatantly telling it as she knows it to her mans face would be suicidal to their relationship.
So don’t get me wrong. Am just putting it all out there now because this is just Mashada. You Mashada men have nothing to prove to me or to other ladies of like mind here. Unless your wives are also mashadites and in essence you are addressing them.
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Originally Posted by Me.On
I, on the other hand, think that is just having fun— before commiting.
Just joking, dear  |
I know you said you were joking but I still have something to say about this. See, a threesome is a perfectly fine and fun activity to engage in. Heck I have been there and done that. But you see this is not something you do with the woman/man you intend to marry and spend the rest of your life with. Its something you do with a casual partner who you know you are with merely for fun.
Its too much of a disgusting and disrespectful (though very delightful/freaky/fun) thing to do with some one you genuinely care for. I for one cannot stand the idea that my future husband could be sleeping with another woman. I cant even stand the thought that he could be making out with any one other than me. That’s because the feelings are deep. But those who I had this kind of fun with, if anything I got off from that idea of sharing. That’s because deep down it was obvious that they were not THE ONE for me.
Again-standards.