08-05-2008, 09:45 PM
Speaking as a child who was raised by a single parent (mum). (more or less)
I did not choose my parents. I have come to accept that. I know if I had grown up with a father I would be different from the way I am today. But I'm not sure I would want to be different from the way I am now. At times it has been hard, but life is hard. I belive that this has made me, or will make me, stronger.
My point is everyone has problems, and to sit in there judging us because of something that we could not help is not proper.
I'm sure I could go into anyone of your pasts' and find something inherently wrong, and based on that wrong, judge you negatively. But I will not. For the same reason I don't start posts about how ugly people ( according to society) have certain negative characteristics. If everyone had a choice, everyone would cute/handsome. If everyone had a choice, everyone would be perfect. But they don't and they're not. Leave it alone. Or be positive. not negative......
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