Poster Boy, those are pretty reasonable wishes but they sound more of absolutes than polite loving expectations. You can't be too extreme even with the simple duties, one has to make allowances every now and then (shift the responsibilities baton) unless your wife is a full time house wife. (oh and lose the attitude
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Sometimes I think that some men will never grow up, after 25 plus years of living with their parents and being taken care of by their mother, they marry and expect the wife to continue from where the mother left off.