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Default 06-28-2008, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by msema ukweli Kabisa View Post
So at this point I introduce the word submit. If you had read my 2nd thread I delibarately said that both partners submit to each other. But when it came to the structure of the family I said that PERSONALY (this is my truth not the truth) i believe that only one person can be the head of the family. Like in a well run corperation, in the board of directors, there is always the Chairman. remember decisions are never made by the chairman, rather by the whole group, when you talk about marriages same thing. Decisions are mutually made.
btw, MUK, i wanted to ask u b4, but i forgot. according to your definition, what exactly does the head of the family do that distinguishes him as the head? is the 'headship' something symbolic, or is it that the head has the final say on certain things or something else?
 


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