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Originally Posted by mo-uk
A womans place is her home
Finally you found yourself the perfect guy. Handsome young charismatic and even a great smile that will make you melt You love him he loves you. Your family loves him , the one you have been searching for all your life . You finally found him ( or he found you whatever the case maybe). Here at your feet is the 'golden man'. Too good to be true!
He thinks you are the girl he has been looking for. Things go smooth no bumps along the way. You both decide this is it, marriage next. He expects nothing form you other than to be a stay home mum. He wishes you stay home and not work , look after him and his children.
What would you do? Freak out yell I did not finish a four year degree to be a stay home mum . Or would you kindly keep quite be happy you find a wonderful husband.
So gurls my question is how many of you would drop their careers for the golden boy and how many of you will refuse to be a stay home mum. BTW there is nothing wrong with being a stay home mum. No stress carefree life , look pretty all day since you have all the time in the world. I mean there are advantages and disadvantages both ways right?
So what would you do? if your future spouse demands you will not work full-time or part-time. And out of curiousty how many guys here will demand their wives stay home? 
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Life is about advantages and disadvantages..................
Having said that....a woman has to know what situation she is getting herself in,yes i would drop my career to be a stay at home mom(i must have finish my degree/masters)only if I see that my husband is a caring,respected,family oriented person,who knows that he has a responsibility of wife and children.
Nevertheless if you see this man is a player from the get go,and portraying nothing good,not working to comfortable sustain a family,no i will not do that.
Wasting time is what that is called,get on with your life if nothing productive doing !!!