[Fraglante]

Mo-uk as you put it ,if most Toms,Dic.ks and Harrys find my career "a challenge to their manhood" then am not out for the Toms Di.cks and Harry's for they are not man enough for me. Am out for the "Rare species" who will not feel threatened by my career.

I avoid insecure little men, men who are beneath me,under achievers and over possessive controlling ones.

In any case if he were 'Mr right', he would love me for who I am.Me and my career. He would appreciate that locking me up would cause me to lose my mind with bordom. Am not built for such simplistic existence.I need a challenge.I need more than "What shall I cook today, who needs a daiper change and what color of shirt will my hubby wear today". Trust me, I can manage a stable family and a career and still have more space in my plate.


He would know that demands of any kind do not work with me.He would know that only mature well thought out reasoning will do.Mutual gareements. But if he knows which buttons to press, I might just agree.But demands??Insecurites??Never! And this has nothing to do with women liberation, feminism or any of that.

And I thought we already agreed that shagz mondo babes are best suited for this? Those who really have nothing else going for them.Those who still think that marriage is the all in all in life?And afew others who naturally have the "calling"