[Ayania]

When I get to a point of settling down with my prince and my king , being a stay home mum is just not going to cut it. With the world we live, let me assume we are all in the U.S unless my man earns more than a million a year, it will be difficult to pay the bills, cater to the kids and all the luxuries of life. There is no way a woman cannot work and still maintain that stable family.

However, if you plan right before getting children, you can save for the one year that a mama can stay at home. This is the reason why I will have to finish medical school before saying " I do", so that I can provide for my children and still be there for them. You can also arrange a schedule for being home with the kids.

anyhow, u just have to negotiate, but both parties have to work and try to make life easier for themselves and the children.