06-19-2008, 01:59 AM
TDA, thats where you go wrong. 14 is not little. This is a big girl who knows what she is doing.
What you need to do is be open. Be the cousin she will come to when a guy is pressuring her to have sex... the guy she will tell when she thinks she is ready etc
That will put you in a better position to advise her when the time comes, rather than scaring her, and you end up alienating her and she closes up.
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