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Originally Posted by Genuwine
Sheila insisted that ALL MEN are dogs and blamed ALL OF US MEN  for her pain. She refused to consider the thought that her recurring love traumas could also be her own making.
I’ve heard numerous tales of misogynistic from women and like a recurring nightmare; certain women can’t seem to break the cycle of attracting men who are bona fide dogs.
These women seem to have a penchant for ending up in risky relationships and/or miserable marriages with loathsome males, but why?
Why are dishonorable males constantly drawn to these women? Why do the men they attract turn out to be abusers, liars, cheaters, fakes and men who end up ripping their hearts out? |
My mother always told me "men are dogs". Never mind that she was and still is happily married. She instilled the fear of God(read men) in me.I believed her completely.
However, with the passing years I have learnt my own lessons and made my judgment. Men are NOT dogs.Well, atleast not all of them.
A woman who blames a man/men for all her pain is sadly mistaken.Why? Well because, every person subconsciously attracts the kind of person they want.She may not know it consciously but deep down in her heart those lying, cheating useless men who treat her like garbage are exactly the kind of men she wants.
So you wonder why would a seemingly sane woman want such a low life for a man??? This is where I remind you never to judge a book by its cover.People come from various backgrounds.This kind of woman may have known nothing but such.ie from her father to her brothers to all the male relatives she grew up with, that could be all she saw.
Perhaps her father was a drunk who never took care of the family, beat up the mum,cheated on her etc. In her tender years she probably made a mental note to stay away from such.But nooooooo...nature will have it that she will subconciously seek out exactly what she saw in her father.Such that if she was to find a man who truely loves her and treats her good she will do something to bring that r/ship to an end.
She needs the drama in her life. A laid back man just doesnt seem to lover her enough.Or to love her the way she wants to be loved, the only way she knows....like her dad loved her mum, like her brothers loved their wives etc etc.
Its a toxic cycle and we really cannot blame her. She is on a trail of self destruction, but will never admit it because she doesnt know.She simply isnt aware thats its her fault.She finds it easier to blame the man.
The women who say men are dogs approach men with a negative preconception.I am convinced ...what ever happens to one doesnt just happen. We bring it upon ourselves.