[okiedokes]

-dishonesty
-lack of communication
-taking each other for granted
-unfaithfulness
-possessiveness

women - forgetting you are still a wife and not just a mother when you have kids. The men appreciate what you do for the kids but they still like some lovin'.

men - thinking the woman is old, or old fashioned(after giving birth) and her 'goods' are now on the clearance i.e no longer appealing. I hear women reach their prime at 40, so guys you just may not know what y'all are missing.

the list goes on....