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Are there women here, who in that very moment of weakness justified your actions to a potential mate or even spouse without it being solicited??

its happened before, sometimes you dont even give it a thought, you just find yourself blurting it out. normally happens when you've found this great guy who almost perfectly fits your dream guy.

its kind of a mutual thing. you want to be open cos this guy is being open to you. guys know how to summarise their past but a woman will judge herself harshly considering the society plays a role in criticising her every flaw.

i wouldnt term it begging for forgiveness but rather like sdolphin said, its trying to make this person let you know that its ok to err.
afterall, what happened in the past cannot be erased. it should remain there. like someone once said, the past has no place in the future.

Have you apologized past wrongs to a man, probably because you think sooo much about this guy that you feel you wronged him in the present though the ‘wrong’ was in your past??

that feeling of wronging a guy in the past comes when you believe you are going to be with a guy long term. then you start thinking that some of your flaws may effect his 'perfect' image towards people in his life.

notice how a woman who aborted in the past feels guilty when she cant give birth? she feels she has wronged this man beyond repair.