[grip_daddy]

Let me add an angle to your post, and this has nothing to do with Ester and me.

Consider if for the sake of winning your love, she presented a clean past. I think due to that pretence of which the current burden rests, she should surely seek forgiveness.

Most of us pretent to our soulmates, creating images that are considered acceptable by them we love. After being together for a while, and after realising that the past haunts too much, we would want our mates to know who we really are.

So I think past sins, if especially we lied about them in order to get acceptance, are worth confessing.