Ester your r/ship with GD not withstanding, I will use a statement you made on this thread
Guys would you??...n you chics wld u accept?? (the last post on the page) to further an argument, I respect your relationship, Your post could mean many things and could only be privy to you 2, but I will take it as I see it, so excuse the assumptions, and keep in mind this is not about you.
This has happened to me and it has always left me wondering why it happens. How comes women apologise to men over the prior trespasses, (before meeting their current men).
I once had a galfriend who confessed to me about her extremely colourful sensual life and the kind of odd characters that she regretted to have been entangled with in the first place, it was a moment of sharing and I guess I shared my experiences too.
What surprised me was, she did what I inferred earlier by Ester response, she asked me for forgiveness of something she did before I met her!! I really sorta understood the nature of the request because of the bonding factor, but that left me with some questions, you know, it seemed she had not forgiven herself (assuming she had anything that needed forgiving), she needed me to say it was alright, she felt burdened by it and needed to let me know so as to be open, It coulda been a lot of things.
Are there women here, who in that very moment of weakness justified your actions to a potential mate or even spouse without it being solicited??
Have you apologized past wrongs to a man, probably because you think sooo much about this guy that you feel you wronged him in the present though the ‘wrong’ was in your past?? (funnily you probably did not do anything wrong, its just that you know he doesn’t approve)
Is this what they mean when they say, try and have sex in marriage with your life partner, then you will not have guilt nor need for absolution??
And usually there is a saying that goes, even a b.itch will one day meet her match in a man, so
will she have the same issues, of feeling guilty of her past??