[Native Son.]

Personally, I like gals who are aloof and when I say this, I don't mean it in a negative sense. All I am talking about is someone who is just reserved and going about her own business.

Ladies, let me steal a nugget for youfrom a man's world;

You don't have to talk to a man to have him/them notice you. No!!!

We do it the moment we enter a room where you are present or the moment you enter a room that we are in. We are 'predators' so to speak. Our antenna is always up looking for women and the moment we see someone whom we think fits our profile, we approach them.

There is a certain code of conduct that the society expects of everyone. Ladies are no exception. society expects ladies to be modest, suave, full of mannerisms e.t.c.

It (society) is also ready to forgive men who go peeing by the roadside or behind buildings but would never forgive a lady for such bad behariour.

In the same breath, the society expects women to be modest. IT IS THAT SIMPLE.

Anyone who contravenes this simple etiquette appears to be what I'd call an outlier in statistics-someone who deviates from the norm.

Whereas it is true that some men would have no problem with such women who approach men, many of us would. It is an abnormal thing.

A well raised woman knows that she has to conduct herself with decorum and propriety, not trying to catch the attention of men left right and wherever.