No wonder women will continue being referred to as the weaker sex. When it comes to approaching a man , you find the same women who are claiming its ”desparate” to approach a man are the same women who will technically put more effort into ”bagging a man” than those who prefer the direct ”walk up to the man approach” . Seriously, whats the difference between a ”coy woman” who who sees a man a man she likes but since she can’t approach him directly she decides to (read below) and a more direct female?
An old fashioned lady (or conservative lady) will ..
”bat her eye lids profusely to the point of where her eyelashes violently tangle and her mascarra turns muddy”
”walk past the man 101 times until she is sure he has noticed and retained her image in his head”
” sit across him at the pub and extend and twist her neck until she gets a muscle pull kwa shingo, just so she can catch direct eye contact with the man in question”
”pout their lips suggestively for an hour until their lips start to crack and the lipstick starts to peel off”
”wiggle their hips and keep repositioning herself in a bid to look sexy and alluring untill she gets friction burns between her thighs”
(Only for him to walk away in the arm of another gay man)
All of that just not seem desparate , because you are waiting to be approached. Seriously, how do you even know that man you are aiming for is even available, or single, he might even be gay. You can save your self the trouble by approaching him. The question should be how and when to approach a man not if ladies should approach a man at all.