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Originally Posted by iglow
Question 1 - Hands up if Kenya 2007 elections hasn't affected ya general thinking.Many hands, i'm sure.
Question 2 - Hands up if Kenya 2007 elections hasn't affected ur 'dating other tribes' perspective.(Many will lie that it hasn't).I won't.
This issue brought chaos btwn my pals, people i've known since forever.
This is my story:I was at the verge of seriously dating a Kenyan who isn't my tribe, as in we were to tell our families back in Kenya sometime soon...until he made one powerful comment..he didn't even know i heard.I acted foolish n never told him a thing..just weighing his brain for some time.His buddy who's his tribe told him 'She heard you that day, by the way.'Boy was so so SURPRISED.From nowhere the fool brings the topic to the table."Now i understand why you avoid me these days..bla bla.."Fool now wants to explain how he 'did not mean it that way'.
Quiet frankly i wasn't dat into him(thats ana story)He was 'just an ok guy' si eti 'true love'  But then that comment came up and finally i had a reason to butt out.I feel free, and now i choose to date ONLY smart people.But,honestly,my view has changed after elections.There are SOME tribes i would like not to be lifetime-involved with...Unless a guy proves to me that his family is a bunch of smarts who think global.Not fools who think life is about their tribe.I won't mention any coz like i have implied, i'm too smart for that.And am hell too hot to put up with backward thinking.Just my preference.
What do mashadites think?I don't mean to brag..jamaa cannot ACTUALLY believe i mean business by 'I'M DONE'.People think 'we are good together' But nada,I believe i'm still young (Low 20s) and there's no rush Smart thinkers only. |
Im glad u learned his true traits b4 telling parents @ home.I know some pple will try to shun u here on mashada or even in life but u made the right choice I support u all the way.I can tell u dont judge the whole tribe just because that cheese head talked **** about your/another tribe.That is why u have not mentioned your tribe or his you are a good one love.
You will find someone who is more open minded u feel me.Good luck n keep your head up beautiful.
Keep it 100% always u will never go wrong.....
