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Originally Posted by busy
i think it's weird, being physically abused and you are like"...........but i love him" and most ladies are abused even before tying the knot or something of the sort and one still persists to stay in the relationship!! i think that is bull****, nothing like love there, what is he capable of doing after he's married you?
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the reason why an abused person stays is because most of the time the abuser plays jekyl and hide personality[ check the dictionary for meaning].then before the physical abuse which is the last resort the abuser uses he has emotionaly and psychologicaly damaged the womans self esteem and used economic and financial abuse to make her powerless.in cultures where women are not respected he uses the culture to abuse.knowledge is power.if you are a man and you have a mother,a sister,an aunt ,a daughter.a grandmother then educate yourself about the abuse signs and control behaviours used in early cases of abuse.you might be the only one who will help that woman escape before she is murdered.and know that the time to be killed is when the woman is trying to escape.the abuse never gets better but gets worse with time -no matter how many apologies the man gives.if you are a man and dont want to educate yourself about abuse then you must be an abuser yourself.if a woamn or girl comes to you for help and you have not bothered to read about domestic abuse or spouse abuse or commonly used term domestic violence
introduction - domestic violence then start writing her euology to use in her funeral.many women die from diseases brought about by abuse like high blood pressure,stroke,heart attack.depression and others from suicide.there is rape in marriage and every man who uses physical violence also uses physical violence called rape in bed.
domestic violence and abuse: signs and symptoms of abusive relationships