[carolecarole]

Originally Posted by von

i once had a boyfie who tried to raise his voice on me over the phone on a number of occassions. His behaviour indicated that he had potential for physical aggression, so i ditched him. No woman in her right mind should put up with physical abuse.

very good you saw the signs early.i guess some women stay for fear of being alone n not being able to support the kids n giving them the kind of life the father gives them. But that is no good reason coz eventually,these men can beat a woman even to death like has been reported!sadly so,but many women have to endure these maltreatments..n rapes too from the soo called husbands..!!!hata ni vile tu hawa wanaume wa mashada hawaezi sema..yu'd be surprised how many are physically abusive...lol..