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Yeah, i think God influences who you have

Yeah God influences who you have by issuing guidance as to what is good. He gave the descriptions of what is good which descriptions are well expounded in the bible, which as a man with a mind, reason, understanding and wisdom ought to read and follow.

Expecting God to offer direct influence negates the purpose why He enabled the preservation of those biblical books, other spiritual counselling materials, and rational mind.

If anyone refuses to follow God's ways as an individual, then you end up with someone who is not compatible, dont drag God into the scene of your blind choice claiming that it is God who chose or influenced you.